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GGG - Finally getting it!
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GGG - Finally getting it! Any of you who are familiar with Dan Savage would know the definition of GGG. For those of you who do not know Dan, or who do not pay enough attention to his internationally syndicated sex advice column, GGG stands for "Good, Giving and Game". Roughly, it refers to your willingness to satisfy your partner's kinks, even though they might not interest you personally. Good - Means you have the sexual skills to be successful when you try new things. Giving - Means that you are willing to serve your lover's needs without worrying about your own. Game - Means you are willing to try new things that your lover is interested in, just to make them happy. Now I'm generally a monogamous guy, and as such I haven't really had that many sex partners. I generally have long term relationships, lasting three years or more. I'm constantly looking for that one relationship that will stand the test of time. That said, up until recently, I can't honestly say any of my past lovers were really GGG. Let's give my previous three lovers names, shall we? We'll call them X, Y, and Z. Z was the first of the recent batch, and boy, zzzzz.... is the right term when describing her GGGness. She was about as sexual as a giant panda. I'll give her credit for trying... a little... on the odd occasion that she was "in the mood". We had sex near the beach... we had sex on the roof of out 3rd floor flat... but that's about as kinky as she ever got. X was the abusive one, and I call her X because she calls herself that when she wants to be anonymous. She preyed on my own GGGness to serve her needs, without ever concerning herself with mine. This lasted nearly four years. What a mistake. She certainly gave me attention -- mostly of the negative kind -- and she had a great sex drive, but she was just too selfish to have ever deserved someone like me. And then there's Y. I call her that because I will never understand y... I mean why... she gave up on the relationship. She was kinky. And she was fun, but once again she was pretty darned selfish, and the big issue -- she wasn't willing to give any of her time. Sex to her was just fucking. She didn't want to make love because -- honestly, she's been in love with someone else (who doesn't love her as more than a special figure) for the last six or seven years of her misguided life, and she just can't let herself love anyone else but him. So although she was kinky (we had fantastic couples sex together) she wasn't giving, in terms of emotion, or in terms of time. Now, I've finally met someone who is truly GGG. And the feeling is great. I'll call her A here because she deserves an "A" for her generosity, and her goodness. I have been with A only a short time. At first I wasn't sure I wanted to start something serious with her, after all, X and Y had both hurt me so much I just didn't want to give any more of myself. what a mistake that hesitation was. A has turned out to be exactly what I needed. Great sex drive, very kinky (she wants to have sex on a public double-decker bus) and she really wants to make me happy. She wears anything I suggest, and she tried the sex party thing, even though she ended up not liking it. This relationship has just started, and I can't wait until I can report on our progress. |
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9/12/2006 1:20 am |
What a FANTASTIC start to a GREAT BLOG! Congratulations! Welcome to Blogaritaville! please click here: [post 485524]
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9/12/2006 3:06 am |
well hi i just wanted to say i hope u r happt u sound like a great women and i wish u good luck and if u girls ever need a stripper contact me im a stripper but i only have 13inches and i luv to dance ok bye have a nice day
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9/12/2006 11:37 am |
are those A's knickers you were wearing in the photo? lol cute ... noisy_belle x
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LOL no that's one of my 25 or so swimsuits... I have a swimwear fetish. Nice legs, by the way, belle. But then you knew that already.
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