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Are All Divorced Men Liars?  

passer58by 66M
1586 posts
10/28/2008 12:01 pm

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Are All Divorced Men Liars?
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rm_aboutme66 59F
6046 posts
10/28/2008 12:46 pm

 I read this blog and commented right after you. It seems that she was painting all divorced men with the same and not taking into account the millions of valid reasons for breaking the till death do us part.
she did have some good points ...not wanting her or others children.
She just seemed like a very bitter young lady.Well al least I thought she came across that way.
Did you notice the age of the parents when she was born ? She stated that she couldn't date anyone 15 years or older than herself because it was her dads age and that would be yukky!!
My name is Donna and I am a single woman ...she didnt say we females couldnt use the word after a divorce !!!
Donna
Someday is today.


BuffyBitchSlayer 44G
650 posts
10/28/2008 2:18 pm

 Maybe she had a bad experience that is clouding her judgement. No one can say ALL men or divorced men are liars but MOST people on Gay Hookup Zone I have found lie in some way.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/28/2008 2:19 pm
    Quoting  :
The impression I got from her blog was that she does have some issues with men. That's understandable, men sometimes don't behave in the best ways with women. The idea that only never married people should call themselves single seemed a little odd to me.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/28/2008 2:21 pm
    Quoting rm_aboutme66:
    I read this blog and commented right after you. It seems that she was painting all divorced men with the same and not taking into account the millions of valid reasons for breaking the till death do us part.
    she did have some good points ...not wanting her or others children.
    She just seemed like a very bitter young lady.Well al least I thought she came across that way.
    Did you notice the age of the parents when she was born ? She stated that she couldn't date anyone 15 years or older than herself because it was her dads age and that would be yukky!!
    My name is Donna and I am a single woman ...she didnt say we females couldnt use the word after a divorce !!!
I wondered about the age of her parents. They were 15 when she was born? That's how I read it. She did have some good points, she knows what she wants and you've got to respect someone who is that self aware.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/28/2008 3:56 pm
    Quoting  :
I didn't read her profile, this was a blog written today after, I believe, 2 years on this site. It's seems obvious that she's been hurt along the way.

The word "all" doesn't leave room for any exceptions, she was pretty adamant about how she feels. Of course, she does have the right to her own opinions and it appears she has no qualms about stating them.

I'm pretty cynical about women right now, mostly because of my ex. But, I don't believe all women think or act the way that she did.

As far as the term "single" is concerned. This is the definition I found in my dictionary, "not in a romantic relationship". I've always assumed that single meant just that, not part of a couple.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/28/2008 4:07 pm
    Quoting  :
I have no doubt that she's been deceived and hurt by men, probably more than once. We all know that this site, and probably all the other dating sites, are inundated with less than truthful people.

You are right, it's best to be honest about your history, as painful as it may be. It would be a shame to lose a potentially rewarding relationship because of a lie that was unnecessary. I believe most people want the truth and if you give them that respect, they are more likely to return the favor. It's not always true, but I'd rather be honest about my status than have to explain a lie. I hate having to defend the indefensible.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/28/2008 4:11 pm
    Quoting BuffyBitchSlayer:
    Maybe she had a bad experience that is clouding her judgement. No one can say ALL men or divorced men are liars but MOST people on Gay Hookup Zone I have found lie in some way.
There doesn't seem to be any doubt that she's been hurt. But ALL is a word with no exceptions and she was pretty adamant about it.

I do think that many people on here, maybe even most, have blurred the truth concerning certain topics. I know a woman on here who was less than honest about her age. It didn't matter to me and I really doubt that it mattered to most of the men she met. But, I do think she was worried about it, that it would reduce her chances of meeting someone. I'm not defending it, but from my perspective, it really wasn't an issue.


rm_DaphneR 65F
8019 posts
10/28/2008 11:15 pm

 As if she has never lied in her life.

She makes generalizations, which is a huge pet peeve of mine. Judge each person individually, not as a group or a whole.
Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/29/2008 1:00 am
    Quoting rm_2jourSexC:
    "She wants a white (yes, white, Jesus may love you, but she won't, if you're not white) meat eating, employed, clean cut, untattooed, unpierced, non-artist, non-musician who doesn't live in his mom's basement is between the ages of 35 and 45 and has never been married."

    I want to happily die, at a ripe old age and be an independently wealthy millionaire--that DOESN'T mean its going to happen! Good Lord! No wonder people like this ARE single, huh?
It's nice to know what you want, getting what you want may be a bit more problematic.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/29/2008 1:01 am
    Quoting rm_DaphneR:
    As if she has never lied in her life.

    She makes generalizations, which is a huge pet peeve of mine. Judge each person individually, not as a group or a whole.
I'm sure her lies are completely excuseable.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
10/29/2008 12:38 pm
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What's really a shame about her attitude is that she may be missing somebody who's perfect for her because he doesn't fit her predetermined parameters.


rm_lyssyloooooo 62F
2131 posts
10/29/2008 7:46 pm

 I'm in total agreement, it truly is a shame that her attitude may prevent her from meeting someone meant for her (if there really is such a thing). One of these days she may come to realize that her faulty thinking has not helped her in any way... and then again, maybe not; she does sound like she's incredibly closed-minded. Thanks for this post, passer58by.

Peace~n~Love~n~Hugs~n~Kisses...Lys


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
11/13/2008 1:42 pm
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She was pretty adamant about her opinion and she certainly wasn't going to allow it to be altered by anything as trivial as facts.


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