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Blogs > hotdreamer1000 > While I was Dreaming

Sex and Romance  

hotdreamer1000 64M
8677 posts
2/25/2011 8:46 am

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11/7/2011 10:23 am
Sex and Romance

Sex and Romance

That's what you come here for.

Isn't it?

Maybe sometimes a thought provoking question, or a thread of home-spun philosophy. At least that is what I have always thought. But then maybe my readership has changed. Or maybe I have changed. Whatever it is, I think I am tiring of writing about the same old themes. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying there won't be any more sexy dreams, romantic reminiscences, fantasies of Prairie Girl and GG, or moments of heart-ache over some temporary crisis or loss of direction. (I said loss of direction.......so far I'm okay in male libido function areas. )

But if it is time to put the usual topics aside for a moment, or expand them into new horizons, then I'm going to need a few pointers. What do you hope for when you come to my blog? What would you like me to write about? I really would like to know.

I notice there are certain themes which first attract me to your blogs. And people attract me in different ways, so that I find myself reading different writers for different reasons. Although it usually takes something cerebral to get my lust fully focussed, I also admit to finding myself secretly drawn to some blatant sexy picture-blogs. But then I'm not going to reciprocate in that way here. Sorry, it's just not me. Something tells me you wouldn’t want me to anyway.

Then there's the wild sexual exploits. Yes, I admit it, I get turned on reading them. They have to be well observed though, they have to draw their readers into the scene.......not everyone can do that. I find them especially sexy of it sounds like they are true. But since I'm not having any sex at the moment, you won't find them here either, other than in the reminiscences.

Also I like thought-provoking blogs, though I am talking about observations on human nature, relationships, the way of the world – I usually avoid blunt politics; it tends to lead to argument rather than discussion.

So what, if anything, would you like more of from me? I really am looking for inspiration, so ask away – if it catches my imagination I will do my best to oblige!

marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
2/25/2011 1:16 pm

 Now I've got to go put on my thinking cap.


Mariana_Trench_ 50F
4396 posts
2/26/2011 11:15 pm

 I agree with sunshine. The picture was a compelling starting-off point. I return because I enjoy your writing and what you say is interesting, as well as often unique. Thought provoking, a bit sexy.

MT


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/28/2011 4:34 am
    Quoting  :
There are so many pieces of me which have to stay hidden from this blog, partly because they make me traceable, or too easily recogniseable, which I don't want on open blog. It is strange - in 3D life, I can talk about all the things I am involved with, everything I do - and yet somehow I can't quite always be completely myself.

Here, I can be completely myself, and yet there are lots of aspects of my life I don't want to talk about. I am glad you stay for the pieces you do get though, and I hope that you find, as I do with those who I read, that simply the way the words are written tells you the things you really want to know.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/28/2011 4:36 am
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Wow, this is an amazingly generous and welcome comment, especially from you - someone who so rarely does comment - despite obviously having your own evocative way with words.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/28/2011 4:39 am
    Quoting Mariana_Trench_:
    I agree with sunshine. The picture was a compelling starting-off point. I return because I enjoy your writing and what you say is interesting, as well as often unique. Thought provoking, a bit sexy.

    MT
I am astonished to be hearing how much of an effect the picture has! Originally it was just the best idea I could come up with for hiding my face without it looking too contrived. (You do know it is four years out of date now, don't you? I still look the same, but with a bit less hair, lol.)

I want to keep on being thought provoking and uniquely sexy (I know that's not quite what you said, lol, ) but I seem to be running out of ideas at the moment!


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/28/2011 4:44 am
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Thanks - I am really delighted by your comment, but I still need ideas for topics! Oh well, I guess that's part of it, I can't really expect you guys to think them up for me. Sometimes I think I worry too much about needing to maintain a sexy or romantic theme - I don't always have anything new to say on that front, so maybe I should just take your kind words at face value and write on whatever comes to mind.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
3/7/2011 2:19 am
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"You should blog about what matters to yourself." This is of course true, and something I have often said to others. But for me, and I think for many, it is a little more complicated than that. In fact I would go so far as to say, I tend to easily get tired of reading blogs by people whose focus is too much on themselves.

I think I write also in order to entertain and enjoy the feedback, to get a cross flow of thoughts going, and if what I write doesn't interest the people who like to read my blog, if it becomes too self-absorbed for example, then they would be less likely to visit and read, and the feedback would become less and less interesting.


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