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what are your feelings about the new IM system?  

nastytease4U 46F  
12106 posts
7/18/2020 3:56 am

Last Read:
8/3/2020 4:05 am

what are your feelings about the new IM system?

Things I noted:

Sorting by distance means those who are farthest from you appear first.

I have open a before I can delete it.

It now glitches and doesn't show my friends list.

I have not found one thing that is better

What do you think?
They need to fix it or go back to the old system
I love it
I really don't give a damn


big54al 69M
2259 posts
7/18/2020 4:52 am

They still haven't fixed the missing words on blogs yet


maturem1967 56M  
19 posts
7/18/2020 5:36 am

Yeah, quite a lot glitches to be fixed still.


smurfalert99 68M
34 posts
7/18/2020 5:49 am

It's really, REALLY awful.

And they expect people to pay to use it.


jackdiane3 66M/58F  

7/18/2020 6:00 am

doesnt work for me


myxxxfiles 66M  
11 posts
7/18/2020 6:01 am

I use an older platform...unable to use IM now they locked me out... worked perfectly before.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/18/2020 6:17 am

I'd not even looked at it till you mentioned it.

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idahosmilin 71M
29 posts
7/18/2020 7:15 am

Go back to the old system.


coolpoolguy3 57M
3357 posts
7/18/2020 7:21 am

Worst version of IM yet!


Greatsex4ume2 65M  
55 posts
7/18/2020 7:26 am

Worse then before!


piggmann 63M  
4 posts
7/18/2020 7:28 am

it's much worse than before. not that they listen. this is a total "take the money and run" site. run that credit card and its fuck us all after that.


2469gold 54M  
5 posts
7/18/2020 7:29 am

Many messages don't go through, and notifications are terrible when they do work. I liked it when it showed missed messages as well . new one is totally a flop. layout is good but beyond that.........


FenderGibson999 59M  
1 post
7/18/2020 7:34 am

It's a piece of shit as usual.


Wok2016 42M  
599 posts
7/18/2020 7:48 am

It's probably worse than what they replaced it with. Which is impressive, given it wasn't very good to begin with. That seems like something that should have been easy to fix....


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
7/18/2020 7:55 am

I've been on this site 15 years, the IM has been shitty for all of them.

They will never get it right.


jan04005 66M/52F
9 posts
7/18/2020 8:05 am

this whole sight sucks


opnmnds2fnd 43M  
8 posts
7/18/2020 10:37 am

No real improvement in any way I can tell. It has its own issues that I don;t think they planned on like it switches you to "busy" if you simply refresh your main profile page or try to do anything else on the site as well as chat simultaneously. Ooops...


pentastar1954 69M
3 posts
7/18/2020 10:38 am

At $100 per year the site is doing well for not working properly


Firebird81964 59M
8 posts
7/18/2020 11:25 am

I am a former gold member under another user name, since I rejoined as a standard member I can't do shit. The cost for becoming a gold member is ridiculous. The last time I renewed my old gold membership I got it for $7 a month for 12 months. I hate to sound so cheap but $20 a month for a site that doesn't work half the time and half of who's members seem to work for the site with no other reason than to make you use your points, buy more points or get you to buy other shit isn't worth it. This used to be a really good site but I agree with some other comments that I have read, I think the demise of this site is soon at hand.


maybe1932 69M/55F
44 posts
7/18/2020 12:26 pm

Ours hasn't worked since it changed


swfla56 67M
99 posts
7/18/2020 12:52 pm

They do anything to members from chat. BULL SHIT. IT worked fine before assholes.


60satisfaction 66M

7/18/2020 12:58 pm

It doesn't matter a bit what they do...
its a wonder that it works at all.


Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
7/18/2020 2:04 pm

IT SUCKS !!!!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/18/2020 2:37 pm

I really don't like the new IM..

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985bii 65M
1 post
7/18/2020 3:28 pm

I hate it. Whether the glitches are fixed or not, it's terrible. The old IM was so much easier.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/18/2020 8:04 pm

I'm confused here.Is there a reason why people would rather
use a system that's never been reliable. I never sent any and the ones I
received were of the standard predictable nonsense.I do remember it very well
for a rather large amount of negative back and forth and ghosting reports often posted on blogs rather regularly.

Using more than all the road!


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