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Attraction pondering...  

MajorEasy 54M
3026 posts
1/28/2007 12:46 pm
Attraction pondering...


Just got an email from a long lost staff...and wonder what might have been...


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
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MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
1/28/2007 12:47 pm

Haven't kept in touch with her for the last 5-6 years and out of the blue, I got an email from her...

She wrote to inform me that she has moved to Hong Kong with her family...her parents moved there a year ago and that she just found a job there too...

As I thought back, she was a wonderful girl...bright and hard working...always had a smile for everyone...

She didn't report directly to me but to someone who reported to me...if my memory serves, I treated her well...professionally and pleasant...and I particularly remember her as one of the few none-flirty ones...thought she was pretty, in a demure, soft-spoken sort of way...and as cheerful as she was...she didn't mix around socially...

I am happy she was not flirty...otherwise, based on my weakness for shy girls...I would have had to give her a go...and that might have ruined her impression of me...my professional reputation too...

Anyhoo...she wrote and said hi...if ever I'm in Hong Kong...blah blah...but what was most interesting was the way she ended her email...she spoke of the 'good old days' and being able to hang out with me and so on...

Hang out??? When???

And if I still used the same cologne...the one that distracted her so much...

I don't know...but seems the girl had the hots for moi way back when...

Okie...this is what I think...

Could it be that she found me enchanting because I never made a move for her?? I've seen many a eyes-roll from women talking about guys who chased them relentlessly...do women find a guy who doesn't debase himself in pursuit of women more attractive?? Or is it simply a romanticizing of the past?


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 66F
2831 posts
1/28/2007 1:25 pm

I think that she was attracted to you way back when, but because she was shy and you the boss, nothing came of it.

Now that she's older, she's wondering 'what if'..... but I doubt it's because you didn't make a play for her back then.



Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
1/29/2007 3:06 pm

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    I think that she was attracted to you way back when, but because she was shy and you the boss, nothing came of it.

    Now that she's older, she's wondering 'what if'..... but I doubt it's because you didn't make a play for her back then.


So sweetie...you think she wasn't attracted to my non-pushy manner


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 66F
2831 posts
1/29/2007 3:49 pm

I think that she wasn't attracted ONLY by your non-pushy manner.
But I do find a laid back manner more appealing than an overly aggressive one. Maybe she's the same?



Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
1/30/2007 8:08 am

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    I think that she wasn't attracted ONLY by your non-pushy manner.
    But I do find a laid back manner more appealing than an overly aggressive one. Maybe she's the same?


Fair point sweetie...there's so much to like about me...could be anything really...

I've written back...and in between lines, hinted that I like her too...just that I wasn't comfy with a long term relationship then, even now...so let's stay friends and see how things go in the future...
Good move??

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 66F
2831 posts
1/30/2007 11:13 am

    Quoting MajorEasy:


    Fair point sweetie...there's so much to like about me...could be anything really...

    I've written back...and in between lines, hinted that I like her too...just that I wasn't comfy with a long term relationship then, even now...so let's stay friends and see how things go in the future...
    Good move??
Yeah, good move. What's the age difference between you?

She'll probably be impressed by your humility and self-effacing manner!





Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
1/31/2007 8:34 am

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    Yeah, good move. What's the age difference between you?

    She'll probably be impressed by your humility and self-effacing manner!


Oh about 6 years if I remember correctly...but I'm really not interested in a relationship right now...maybe in a few years...which means she'll have to wait with no guarantees...not sure I like to put her into that situation...maybe it's best that I just remain friendly and nothing more for now...

Heh heh...methinks I'm able to impress her with more than that sweetie...


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
.


changihomme_fem 53M/51F

2/1/2007 7:13 am

You are always up and ready to impress people, isnt it?
I think thats part of you. Some people just have that substance. It doesnt need to be shouted out loud to get attention. Although I have not met you, from the way you write and express, I think you carry a certain charisma which some women may find hard to forget, or resist. These are only through words. Not yet the physical part.

Just take that as a compliment, Maj.

Fem


MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
2/4/2007 7:29 am

    Quoting changihomme_fem:
    You are always up and ready to impress people, isnt it?
    I think thats part of you. Some people just have that substance. It doesnt need to be shouted out loud to get attention. Although I have not met you, from the way you write and express, I think you carry a certain charisma which some women may find hard to forget, or resist. These are only through words. Not yet the physical part.

    Just take that as a compliment, Maj.

    Fem


Heh heh heh...thanks sweetie...actually, I don't try to impress...unless I think there's a good chance that a person CAN be impressed... ...I'm lazy that way...



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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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truelightgiver 51F
15 posts
1/18/2015 10:59 am

Major. You dont belief that love lost can not be found again? You should contact her and see if it is love.


MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
1/20/2015 8:57 am

    Quoting truelightgiver:
    Major. You dont belief that love lost can not be found again? You should contact her and see if it is love.


Hahaha...no sweetie...I am 99% sure it was not love...

I believe love has to be nurtured and we just never nurture any feeligs whatsoever...so, it was a nice moment and a great memory...I'm going to leave it as that...



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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
1/25/2015 9:29 pm

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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