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MissAnnThrope 63F
7708 posts
5/19/2008 11:53 pm

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Yeah, I know I'm supposed to be explaining my absence. But the words just aren't coming to me in a proper way. But this little diatribe from a married "Christian" man who looks like a cross between Jimmy Swaggart and Cory from "Life Goes On" and is over two hours away in Oklahoma City, well, part of the reason I've been gone is, the entire state is full of men like this. It's going to be a tough read, as he has no real sense of how to write properly and he doesn't believe in paragraph breaks. It is almost outsider art. But the attitude, well, I just love where I get called a for being on this site. Enjoy!

From: RedE2Go1957
Date: May 19, 2008 1:40 PM CDT
Subject: Are you a little Shellfish?

Mildly amusing profile. But I think you are a little to subtle. A giant in your own mind. What one says about others is generally most true about themselves. Reflect on that observation. Judging others is not your strong suit. Sorry about what makes you sad and angry at the world. But if torturing yourself makes you feel better then by all means you have my leave to continue. But if you realize that by saying these mean spirited things that you are giving up your power then relize that you are diminished by engaging in the very thought process that you project to establish that which you say you are. In laymens terms you are spiting in the wind. It appears you have little respect for any one on Passion.com so I think the odds of you winning the lottery or being struck by lighting are greater than finding a true male friend. But THEY say "There is someone for everyone". But in this case how could you respect the guy that would be the way you describe him and how could you respect yourself knowing what you know about that guy. I get your impossible dream. Be good to yourself forget getting even with the world. Create some value for your life. Make you proud! The hell with everyone and everything else until that happens. Love yourself first. Then get a or a cat and love that pet. Then slowly let people into your life. Be of service to others learn humility. Quit honking the horn of life at everyone. Stop smoking. You are not typical nor are you a snob. Snobs have class and would never stoop so low as to prostitue their comments in a venue such as this. Just because you can think or do a thing does not make it imperative to execute. Smile some time. In the mirror. If your reflection smiles back honestly ( not a shit eating grin mind you) then you have a opportunity to have a great day. If this starts happening everyday then there is hope for you. As for you and I lets just agree to disagree for now.
No reply is required.


Well, you know I replied. Especially seeing that no reply was required. Guys, this guy is typical of the men in this state. A few of the roomie's friends refer to the men in this state as "cheaters and beaters." I know one young lady who is so jaded, she honestly believes every single man in the state is like that.

Also, Oklahoma ranks 47th overall in public schools in the country. So, based on the fact he has no sense of usage and is cheating on his wife, this was my reply. Which isn't up to my usual standards, but I'm tired. I'm going to bed as soon as I hit post:

You're a married "Christian" cheating on your wife. You have no sense of proper paragraphs, which made your boring diatribe impossible to read.

Look pal, I'm a Northeastern Liberal feminist who has landed in Oklahoma on a temporary basis. You saw a picture you liked browsing the profiles. You hated my profile, especially when you saw no married men.

I personally don't care what men in a state full of right wing cheaters and beaters thinks of me. Your spelling, grammar, writing style all betray you to be not as intelligent as you would like to think, but most likely, as your IQ seems to be in the 90 range, (based on your usage of the English language,) that you're a genius based on the substandard education public schools offer in this state. Yes, I know that was a run-on sentence, but I doubt you know what that means.

But I'm so glad to know that you're so high and mighty that you consider all the women on Passion.com to be prostitutes. Tell me, oh wise one. Does that make you a master?


As I said, not up to my usual biting standards. But I thought I would post it for the amusement of all you prostitutes and masters out there.

Oh and a special note to the roomie on this one... If I hear that I'm judging without giving the guy a chance, well, what color casket would you like?

firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
5/20/2008 12:07 am

Eh, your reply was simple and to the point. I don't think he would've "gotten it" if you'd sent one that is up to your usual biting standards.

The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


rm_DaphneR 65F
8019 posts
5/20/2008 12:11 am

"Subject: Are you a little Shellfish?"

Okay. I just can't get past the subject line. We all know you are relatively short. Was this just a lucky spelling error on his part or did he accomplish calling you a shrimp in a somewhat underhanded way all on his own? I'm giving him too much credit, aren't I?

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


AmericanBaronin 59F   
12250 posts
5/20/2008 12:34 am

Yes, D, ya giving him way too much credit IMNHO!

Now, Ann, let's go on to the preparations. In this row we have the sport-themed caskets. What was the soon to be departed favorite team? They are rather pricey, but we have some lovely urns in those colors/teams as well.


EnchantingWench 56F

5/20/2008 12:39 am

I liked your reply because it contained sarcasm combined with truth.....he didnt call you or us prostitutes though he said prostituting your comments. Dont get me wrong im not defending him because i cant stand it when men who read profiles & send 'hate mail' because they realise theyre not going to 'fit in' well on this site due to their attitude, marital status or some other failing they have.

I get mail from men who are smaller than me saying im too picky blah blah blah because i want a man over 5'10". Thats not being picky its a bloody preference because im tall.

I suspect this message is sent to many folk on here & just adapted slightly according to whos profile he has read. Hes a nut who has realised that the site is not full of unpaid hookers like he had hoped & so hes not going to get a shag after all.

No sex please im British
*The Wench*


popmuse01 42F

5/20/2008 6:56 am

I'd say it was more than appropriate for the IQ of the fucktard in question!

I'm leaving the site end of March. To those who want to keep in touch, see blog for details.


rm_LilBlondeNZ 48F
1028 posts
5/20/2008 9:21 am

The "northeastern" part should be bad enough in good ole Okie without the "liberal" and "feminist" parts right?

Hehehe...

What an idiot.

-A


JetSetPets 51M/48F

5/20/2008 6:05 pm

Besides a couple of typos and it being one big paragraph, he didn't sound like he lacked intelligence. He wasn't rude and he did NOT call you a prostitute. To prostitute one's comments is quite different from being a prostitute...he was referring to the blogs, not your sexual behaviour (or lack thereof).

As he said at the end of his 'diatribe', no reply was necessary. Sometimes you just have to let it go.

You should consider shutting off your profile or changing your cupid settings so no one is able to find you in a standard search. It seems no one is good enough for you. No one back home was good enough for you, so there's an icicle's chance in hell that any one in Oklahoma ever will be.

The solution is simple: Keep yourself off the radar until you are in a socially 'desirable' area.


***teehee***


JetSetPets 51M/48F

5/21/2008 12:08 pm

RevJoseyWales.....I suggest you sit down and read this again when your glasses are repaired. If this doesn't make matters clear then please know we have a lot of background knowledge to draw on. Jess and MissAnn have been friends for years.
Sure RedE2Go1957 should know better than to send messages like that but perhaps he had a vision or perhaps a skinfull of whisky. It doesn't change the fact that good points were made.
Please consider being a little more polite in future. Rudeness isn't dignified at your age is it!


***teehee***


grindingpussies2 59F
53 posts
5/21/2008 6:25 pm

OMG, rudeness? That's fucking rich!! You want to tell Rev about rudeness? Your WIFE is rude and you're stupid for defending her rudeness! Did you tell her she was rude because her post was totally inappropriate and incorrect?! Do her a favor and do so. Now let me be rude and say, "Looks like a bitch, posts like a bitch, MUST BE A BITCH!"


NickRules999 46M
9458 posts
5/21/2008 6:26 pm

I'm sorry, but I had trouble reading his diatribe. Ever wonder how Christians could look for side-action and tell the rest of us we're going to hell?

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?


JetSetPets 51M/48F

5/21/2008 7:50 pm

woof


***teehee***


kitchenfun1234 51M
1796 posts
5/21/2008 9:06 pm

grindingpussies2.....Hmmmmm, you are wrong. I can also recognise a stalker profile when I see one.

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.


DrLewdlove 70M
13 posts
5/21/2008 10:01 pm

You have renounced your east coast citizenship, you reside in Oklahoma, you have no say in the matter, you are too picky, your attitude did not get you laid here and it will not get you laid there. If you want a cowboy, be prepared to spread your legs between cattle drives or get out of Dodge.


Scott_in_Tulsa 52M
1325 posts
5/21/2008 10:14 pm

    Quoting DrLewdlove:
    You have renounced your east coast citizenship, you reside in Oklahoma, you have no say in the matter, you are too picky, your attitude did not get you laid here and it will not get you laid there. If you want a cowboy, be prepared to spread your legs between cattle drives or get out of Dodge.
bwahahaha! now that's some funny shit!

I hope you're wearing your asbestos under-roos!

"We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill


2ndCircleOfHell 51F
51 posts
5/22/2008 10:20 am

Is this MissAnn's blog or does it belong to people that just want to insult each other. If ya want to insult each other take it to your own blogs. No one has respect for anyone else on here and you all wonder what the hell is wrong with people. If you want to disagree with her disagree with HER not each other. This isn't your place to respond to each other. It's hers. If you can not show some class with each other then at least respect her place.

AKA Valkriye...


grindingpussies2 59F
53 posts
5/22/2008 10:47 am

    Quoting kitchenfun1234:
    grindingpussies2.....Hmmmmm, you are wrong. I can also recognise a stalker profile when I see one.
LMAO @ stalker profile!!! Your wife looks and acts like Cruella DeVille and you look and act like Emo!!! Get a grip AND a clue!!! Now. . . who was I stalking before I responded to your drivel . . .


mediumWalter 47M
4236 posts
5/23/2008 2:29 pm

Look pal, I'm a Northeastern Liberal feminist who has landed in Oklahoma on a temporary basis.

Christ! I feel like sending you a tank of fresh oxygen or something. That's got to suck.

Blues is a healer. All over the world.
John Lee Hooker

Recommended: [blog lucyjane78]


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
5/25/2008 11:13 pm

I still don't understand how you could choose to reside in OK... Ann belongs on a coast where the more cosmopolitan folks reside... Or at least a university town.


dustyrose418 61F

5/26/2008 5:47 am

OKLAHOMA is SSSSOOoooooooo f.....d up!!!

I'll be able to write the novel thats been hiding inside me based on the f....d up nature of OK and my adventures from the last week.


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
5/26/2008 4:16 pm

    Quoting firegryphon:
    Eh, your reply was simple and to the point. I don't think he would've "gotten it" if you'd sent one that is up to your usual biting standards.
Yeah and it would seem that he wrote that just to see if I would respond. It must be sad to have to use a venue like this to get your thrills insulting women.


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
5/26/2008 4:16 pm

    Quoting rm_DaphneR:
    "Subject: Are you a little Shellfish?"

    Okay. I just can't get past the subject line. We all know you are relatively short. Was this just a lucky spelling error on his part or did he accomplish calling you a shrimp in a somewhat underhanded way all on his own? I'm giving him too much credit, aren't I?
Yeah. I refused to acknowledge that shrimp comment. It was just as underhanded as the rest of it.


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
5/26/2008 4:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Wasn't it?


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
5/26/2008 4:19 pm

    Quoting AmericanBaronin:
    Yes, D, ya giving him way too much credit IMNHO!

    Now, Ann, let's go on to the preparations. In this row we have the sport-themed caskets. What was the soon to be departed favorite team? They are rather pricey, but we have some lovely urns in those colors/teams as well.
The roomie doesn't like sports. Why just last week he made some comment that was humorous in his own mind and I threw a beanbag at his head. It was high and outside. I made a comment that I throw like a pitcher for the Nationals. My joke was met with a blank stare. *sigh*


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
5/26/2008 4:21 pm

    Quoting EnchantingWench:
    I liked your reply because it contained sarcasm combined with truth.....he didnt call you or us prostitutes though he said prostituting your comments. Dont get me wrong im not defending him because i cant stand it when men who read profiles & send 'hate mail' because they realise theyre not going to 'fit in' well on this site due to their attitude, marital status or some other failing they have.

    I get mail from men who are smaller than me saying im too picky blah blah blah because i want a man over 5'10". Thats not being picky its a bloody preference because im tall.

    I suspect this message is sent to many folk on here & just adapted slightly according to whos profile he has read. Hes a nut who has realised that the site is not full of unpaid hookers like he had hoped & so hes not going to get a shag after all.
Well, as he was referring to my profile and nothing else, is not prostituting yourself with a profile here the same thing? He seems to have the idea that we should all be whores to do his bidding. Or his something.

Now, how dare you not want a man off of whose head you could eat soup! Don't you know they join with a porn fantasy in mind and men are allowed to have preferences, women are just a series of holes for their amusement?


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
5/26/2008 4:24 pm

    Quoting  :

Heh. But I want to invite the neighbors in to watch!

The stories that I have of what I've encountered here as far as women being considered chattel... I'm still working on that post.


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