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Blogs > rm_passion071 > ISO ..Sexual healing?

So why preferences?  

rm_passion071 64M
23 posts
8/8/2013 8:24 am
So why preferences?

What is a preference? Sounds like a simple question, one we all know the answer to …until you get here. I see things on profiles like Open Minded- a preference for, and what I call- deal breakers. On my profile I state I have a preference for substantive women with dark skin, hair and eyes. But certainly that doesn’t mean every women fitting that description in a 50 mile radius is on my favorites list. Historically my first woman was a blonde. I had a two year relationship with a wonderful blonde nurse 13 yrs my senior and my last “affair” which lasted two years was with a blonde woman. In all these cases the chemistry overruled the preference. Yet, lately from some of the writings here I’m getting mixed impressions. I think as a man I should NOT bother to reply to a woman’s profile unless I fit her exact preferences (reducing my ridiculously small chances even further). Reason being that so many men are hitting her up daily that she will be able to find exactly what she’s looking for provided she knows what that is and sticks to her guns.
Yet as a guy I hope that women DON’ T apply the same principle to me. See, I am open minded and my tastes can be eclectic. I think personality and chemistry over rule all preferences, as my own history shows. One thing I am more attuned to now is the astrological charts and matches. Although I don’t run my life by them I have found them most helpful in terms of the negative. In fact in terms of the sexual aspect of it I wished I had paid more attention to it earlier. I have found that it is accurate in terms of predicting where sparks will fly and where I am going to need a huge lighter to get things started.
So as a man should I even state preferences my profile? Ladies as a guy should I not bother if I don’t fit 90% or more of your preferences? I am thinking of redoing my profile and just listing the deal breakers and leaving the rest to the Gods of chance?
What do you think?
R.B.
Passion071
I am in the Mood for Love... Hot, Passionate, Toe curling, soul-satisfying love.

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