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 man I just dont know why people if they wanna to divorce wanna keep hanging on to things, it just keeps the soon to be no more couple interactting !hang in there. I can not say much more since I am not divorced. I sometimes feel bad breaking up the marriage as the kids will be living with me, and not their mother. Seems so cruel, but on balance it is for the best. It would be "easy" and financially better for me to smly walk away, but this is about the children and their home environment and I must live with how well or otherwise I got the balance right in the past.
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Thanks - I know how strongly you feel and how much support you have been to me since we "found" each other on the site. We are at the very last stages of the end game I hope and it seems that things will work out for the best without anyone being "damaged". It's only a few weeks til a judge will decide the unresolved issues such as maintenance and pension. When it comes to it it's all about money - here anyway - and the less "damage" done the less she will be dependant upon me and, in the long run, the better off everyone will be.
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I am always so amazed that 2 people who loved each other so deeply at one time can be so vindictive and hurtful to each other. I know this because it happened to myself. All I can say is be true to yourself and everything will turn out as it is meant to be... even if right now you have so much pain and anguish. That was the hardest thing for me to do...I felt so alone. This is why I think this blog is healthy...you can express all those emotions and not keep them inside to fester. Opps...I have rambled..sorry. Hugs, K. It gives an insight to the person and what and how they are feeling. It also is nice to read what other people think, regradess of whether they agree or not. I do have an open, mind by in large, and do take what other people say on board! Sometimes they inspire another port!
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I am always so amazed that 2 people who loved each other so deeply at one time can be so vindictive and hurtful to each other. I know this because it happened to myself. All I can say is be true to yourself and everything will turn out as it is meant to be... even if right now you have so much pain and anguish. That was the hardest thing for me to do...I felt so alone. This is why I think this blog is healthy...you can express all those emotions and not keep them inside to fester. Opps...I have rambled..sorry. Hugs, K. "It's all right for a woman to be, above all, a woman." -Anais Nin
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Your 'overload' bling illustrates exactly my brain yesterday... but i couldn't find your bling anywhere!! Obviously a site thing I'm sure! I'm feeling better today! Thank you for your kindness... always! And those hugs! Oceans apart they still are welcome and wonderful!
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Your 'overload' bling illustrates exactly my brain yesterday... but i couldn't find your bling anywhere!! Obviously a site thing I'm sure! I'm feeling better today! Thank you for your kindness... always! And those hugs! Oceans apart they still are welcome and wonderful!
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Playing dirty comes from fear, N. You know it has nothing to do with you or the children... yet it is so very difficult to keep that perspective when abuse happens midst the children. I know exactly how you feel regarding the refund check. Same thing happened to me 21 years ago. Divorce decree awarded the check to me the end of May, however the tax report was filed in April (prior to the decree). Therefore, it was issued in both our names and in my address. I sent it to him unendorsed by me. Three weeks later I called to inquire to the delay... his then fiance' signed my name, he deposited it into his account. I felt at the time that if I pressed charges, then he would go to jail, lose his job with the military and then the children would be worse off with a parent in jail and not providing child support. Two months later, I had to take him to court to have the child support taken directly out of his military pay prior to him getting it because he hadn't set up the payment as decreed. The crap like this takes up an enormous amount of energy, mental and physically. Do what you must... and be gentle and take good care with yourself! I'm sorry you and your children are experiencing this... positive thoughts and prayers for relief for all, Sweety!
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man I just dont know why people if they wanna to divorce wanna keep hanging on to things, it just keeps the soon to be no more couple interactting ! hang in there. I can not say much more since I am not divorced.
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