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Why its frustrating on here to get to know women
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Why its frustrating on here to get to know women Welcome, thanks for looking at my Blog 2; I wrote this blog out of frustration at not being able to communicate with women on here, as many seem to be rude, and disrespectful. I am a mature western Sydney Gentleman looking for nice, genuine ladies for mutual fun and pleasure. Am clean, healthy and know how to please. YES, I am married, and to a wonderful woman that I love dearly, but because of some personal problems she cannot fore fill all my needs. But because she loves me so much she agrees that me seeking friends and FWB, is what I need. She knows I am respectful to her, and to others, I am safe and clean and do not want to bring anything home that I did not go with in the first place. So, ladies, please put away your pre-conceptions about Married Men, look at my profile, read what is there before you have dismissed ME. One of the common complaints I hear and see written here by women, is that the Men have not ready their profile, well it does cut both ways. It is all about fun, respect, pleasure, company and giving and receiving pleasure. No one should be so up themselves! I know a lot of ladies here are hassled, and many men are disrespectful, but that is not ALL, and certainly not ME. Myself, I just want a chance to chat to women, so they can actually get to know me, for whom I am, not what they perceive I am, a Chance! |
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You said it yourself "ladies here are hassled, and many men are disrespectful" and in turn you, and many men that probably don't deserve to be ignored are. The emails I get are amazing in their crudeness. Probably seven out of ten look to be written by someone with less than a sixth grade education. Others do match ANY of the so-called cupid settings. As an example I got an email a couple days ago, from a 57 year old man. He's old enough to know better, right? Um, not so much. Probably two hours after the first email I get another from him, I guess he felt the need to clarify what he wrote. His second email said "I'm hornier than hell, but I'm not contacting you to fuck you. I have three or four other women interested in doing that." There is such a thing as class and this guy exhibited none. No, I won't write him back because I have NOTHING nice to say to or about him. I learned the hard way on this site that a lot of the men don't like being told no thanks. I end up being called names and getting told to leave the site. As far as you go, I'd just suggest that you make sure you aren't trying to get to know women that specifically state "no married men" in their profiles. Everyone is entitled to their preferences. You can't fault them for that. I'm married. I always felt like a married guy was probably the best bet for me and I question single guys that contact me. They don't get turned down simply because they are single, I just always ask why? Laugh, I turn them down for other reasons.  Good luck finding what you are looking for.  Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.
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Hi DaphneR, Many thanks for posting on my Blog Your truly a woman that is intelligent and does understand the many facets of life. It seems we have the same problems in finding others to be-friend and play with I agree totally with you in what you have said here, and I do thank you for your insight and understanding. I hear what you have said about not responding to women that state “no married or attached guys” and I don’t! That’s were it all turns pear shaped. I f I have contacted a woman, then as much as possible, I have respected her criteria. At times theses are contradictory at best, but then that’s the engine at Gay Hookup Zone, that sorts people’s preferences etc. I can live with that. What id do find hard, exasperating even, and as my example: I contacted a women off here from Aust, one that I had been reading her blog for months. She appeared to be such an intelligent woman, sexy, intouch with her own sexual feelings and those of men. WOW, was I surprised ! She tried to email me directly, and must of put some of her email details in the message, so Gay Hookup Zone deleted that message. How frustrating. I then decided, heck, I will join here and that will fix the problems, no way, that was the start to my down fall. I did manage to message her, she took her time in responding, and after a couple of messages, it was obvious that she was being hard to get, that’s fine, I am not going anywhere. She finally replied with her second message, and I was so waiting in anticipation of making such a quality new friend… Well, I read that message,,,wow, what a downer, she says,,,,,,ooooo I don’t get involved with married men, I did not know you were married, bye and good luck. Hell, this woman, has been in my couples network for over 6 months, and has responded to me many times though her blog, now my only feels were…..how Fickle can a women get ? Again thank you Daphne I hope both our wishes and luck come true. Cheers, Greg xxxxxxx
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6/6/2009 4:27 pm |
Greg.hi . I think another major problem is because of volume of lack of genuine people here that some women here are simply quite defensive when it comes down to crossing that line. On the flip side I had one lunatic threaten me when I rejected her advances.Then stalk me every time I logged on... There is a woman I am interested in and it seems she is more interested in listening to friends and fairies to be able to trust. It seems that because of those facets that some people are paralysed from taking that next step to take a leap of faith and actually come closer. I am as real as you are believe me .However it seems my younger days of getting to know someone were far easier. I think this is attributed to the fact that the human prescence is missing behind a keyboard. You sound like a nice guy but it seems a face to face encounter can show out true demaeanour much more accurately as what we type may not portray exactly what we mean..it can be mmisinterpreted .. My only advice is to persevere as patience will probably open the doors you want to enter.
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Hi pleasureyounice, thank for posting here. I can see you too have had some unplesent experiances like me, and i know how frustrating it can all be. I have not had the isue of being Stalked , but its always a possibility, and again here a point, many women feel that it is They Alone get all the problems, (its much the same with domestic voilonace, men are never in the new as victums, but there are indeed MANY), so a lot of unreal impressions form women. Cheers, Greg
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6/7/2009 8:47 am |
AmAllowed2 indeed the problems go both ways for men and women. Its just society tend to overlook the males as we dont voice our problems as readily due to stereotypes.but have patience my friend.You seem like a good guy and someone must be right for you here..good luck champ.
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Hi again,pleasureyounice Again, some good words of wisdom, i thank you. I have since making the first Blog here chatted to a couple of very intelligent and lovley ladies, so there is some hope yet. Cheers, and good luck to you as well mate Greg
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