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Fakers and Assholes Be Warned  

Ne14_69wMe 56F
90 posts
1/13/2011 1:44 pm
Fakers and Assholes Be Warned

So this is the part of my blog where I call out all of those people posing as something they're not. For example, I'll have some correspondence from a female or a couples profile. We exchange nice notes and agree to chat. One way or another, I discover that it's really a man posing as a woman.

So this is where I post your screen name so that others know. If you're especially devious, I will add it to my profile so that as people hover over my picture, your farce is announced.

I'm honest and open, and will not tolerate predators. So here's the list:

pupredkit - bye bye asshole
illcurius2 - asshole
GailP1000 - asshole

If anyone wants to call them out, add their name here.


twonewtothis101 55M/53F

1/14/2011 3:18 pm

We agree with your blog fully!! You go girl. You will have followers. LOL


chgoman43 65M
18 posts
2/6/2011 5:49 pm

more then half this site are fakes just wanting pics or wanting you to upgrade and pay as they say thats life on here where everyone hides behind a screen but good work keep it up


Gman_looking 59M  
43 posts
2/18/2011 9:13 am

Not to mention the fake ladies who chat with us guys too, leading us on, but never following through, lol
I lthink there a re plenty of equal opportunity fakes on here, of both sexes unfortunately!


Ne14_69wMe 56F
282 posts
2/22/2011 9:29 am

    Quoting Gman_looking:
    Not to mention the fake ladies who chat with us guys too, leading us on, but never following through, lol
    I lthink there a re plenty of equal opportunity fakes on here, of both sexes unfortunately!
I'm not so sure that's the definition of a fake. This particular blog is inspired by the notion that there is a man pretending to be a woman in email and chat. In one of my other blog posts [post 2395358], I address the notion of what people are calling fakes.

In this case, this post is related to those intentionally subversive impersonations that amount to manipulation and mal-intent. Let me just elaborate on what *I'M* talking about; Guy poses as girl in email and chat and tries to lure a person into a meet. It can take many shapes, but one scenario is "you'd like my man too". When the meet takes place, the man is there saying "she couldn't make it", or they both show up without any notice because he's told his woman that a girl has agreed to meet them. That, is a dicey scenario and amounts to subversiveness.

Sometimes it's simply to lure a female into having sexy chat; harmless, I suppose, but devious nonetheless.

I'm not convinced that the lack of follow through makes someone a fake. Tease? Perhaps.

That said, thank you for stopping by my blog!


froggystyle88 42M
62 posts
4/5/2011 3:58 pm

Love this post, keep up the good work


Ne14_69wMe 56F
282 posts
4/18/2011 9:30 am

Thank you! And thanks for stopping by.

As an aside, I got called a fake last night because I told the guy of a couple that I didn't think I was the girl for them. His reply was "well, I guess you're a fake then".

I wish I had replied to him saying: "Do you know the difference between a bitch and a slut? A slut fucks anyone, and a bitch fucks anyone but YOU!".

Sigh...


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
10/17/2012 3:58 pm

I wonder if the same holds true if I were a woman posing as a man? Would that make you angry, or very very happy when we meet and he couldnt get away?

I am that I am (and thats all I am).


Ne14_69wMe 56F
282 posts
10/23/2012 9:44 am

    Quoting FunNewGuy1000:
    I wonder if the same holds true if I were a woman posing as a man? Would that make you angry, or very very happy when we meet and he couldnt get away?

    I am that I am (and thats all I am).
If a woman were posing as a man on this site, I would suspect that there is something very very wrong with her. Since the ratio of women to men here is so small, I can't imagine a woman trying to get some sort of play from another woman if she's posing as a man. That's number one.

Number two, I'm not here to meet men, so the likelihood of a woman, posing as a man, resulting in a "meet" would be even smaller than the ratio of women to men on this site.

Number three, anyone mis-representing themselves is suspect in character, and inherently dangerous. So no, I would not be very very happy.

Finally, based on those quick observations alone, it's a ridiculous premise.


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
10/25/2012 3:25 pm

Probabilities are not all possibilities.
I agree - misrepresentations are a deal breaker.
(but anonymity can be fun!)


Ne14_69wMe 56F
282 posts
10/26/2012 8:11 am

anonymity is self limiting as it relates to meeting. So maybe you're talking about just fucking with peoples head to get off?


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
11/28/2012 12:33 pm

relationships here mirror real time relationships......it takes all kinds


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
11/28/2012 12:34 pm

(and yes, some of them are fakers and assholes)


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