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Ten Things People Learn Too Late
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Not sure that all would agree with number three.
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Three of the things on that list I learned at an early age, simply because we moved around a lot due to my fathers career. Two of the items listed go hand in hand. As for the rest of the list, only time will tell.
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I agree with everything except for 3 and 5... 3...To pagancountrygirl's point, It depends on the family you have as there could be abuse or other issues in a family. 5. Anger can be a motivator to get past fear and push right past it. Anger can create determination and push fear aside. I think I learned #7 later than I should have. A lifetime goes by in a blink especially as we get older.
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About number three I have had my best friend help me out in a way that my family hasn't. Does it happen all of the time no but I do agree that blood isn't always thinker than water. Number 4 I don't know about but I do agree with the rest of them. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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I agree with everything except for 3 and 5... 3...To pagancountrygirl's point, It depends on the family you have as there could be abuse or other issues in a family. 5. Anger can be a motivator to get past fear and push right past it. Anger can create determination and push fear aside. I think I learned #7 later than I should have. A lifetime goes by in a blink especially as we get older.
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About number three I have had my best friend help me out in a way that my family hasn't. Does it happen all of the time no but I do agree that blood isn't always thinker than water. Number 4 I don't know about but I do agree with the rest of them. 
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This is a good topic Sexy.... You definitely provoked some hot buttons for people to discuss. i should clarify about anger being a motivator to get past fear. Anger comes in many forms. We can get angry at ourselves if we passed up an opportunity because of fear. Or fear may not be a factor at all but we can still feel anger toward ourselves for not giving 1000% if it is a work performance issue or whatever the situation might be. My grandparents said the exact same thing to me about time flying the older we get. Off the topic they often said "Back when I was a kid, things were different!!" God help me for saying the same thing today. lol
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This is a good topic Sexy.... You definitely provoked some hot buttons for people to discuss. i should clarify about anger being a motivator to get past fear. Anger comes in many forms. We can get angry at ourselves if we passed up an opportunity because of fear. Or fear may not be a factor at all but we can still feel anger toward ourselves for not giving 1000% if it is a work performance issue or whatever the situation might be. My grandparents said the exact same thing to me about time flying the older we get. Off the topic they often said "Back when I was a kid, things were different!!" God help me for saying the same thing today. lol I know what you mean about things our parents or grandparents used to say. More than once, I have caught myself in mid-sentence and thought, "Oh my gosh! I sound just like my Mother." My daughter has also reminded me too. 
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Sing like no one is listening, love like you'll never get hurt, dance like no one is watching. I was never a very good athlete in large part because I tried too hard and let the "big" muscles take over. Used to ride horses and realized that when I "hacked out" with no pressure to do all the right things I did much better and enjoyed the ride much more. So before I started to take a lesson I started repeating to myself "Dance like no one is watching". My trainer asked me "who flipped your switch? Tonight was the best I've ever seen your ride". So I figured it worked when riding, why not try it in the other parts of my life - and it has worked there also.
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Sing like no one is listening, love like you'll never get hurt, dance like no one is watching. I was never a very good athlete in large part because I tried too hard and let the "big" muscles take over. Used to ride horses and realized that when I "hacked out" with no pressure to do all the right things I did much better and enjoyed the ride much more. So before I started to take a lesson I started repeating to myself "Dance like no one is watching". My trainer asked me "who flipped your switch? Tonight was the best I've ever seen your ride". So I figured it worked when riding, why not try it in the other parts of my life - and it has worked there also.
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