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Flirts and Hotlisting  

usinbflo 62M/55F
14 posts
3/24/2011 6:50 am

Last Read:
1/28/2014 1:53 pm

Flirts and Hotlisting


We recently were asked by a profile here why we sent them a flirt and hotlisted them if we were not interested in driving over two hours to have sex with them.
We were interested in having sex with them because, they are hot. However, we just do not get into driving long distances for sex anymore. We use to when we first got into swinging but, we find it more of a pain than it is worth.
We sent them flirts to let them know we checked out there profile and liked it. Why wouldn't anyone here want to get that kind of feedback from someone who checked them out? Afterall, if you are getting viewed more than flirted with, there might be a problem with your profile or, your photos if you have any posted.
So, to all that read here, if we hotlist you it is because we think you are in fact hot. If we hotlist you we are more than likely to send a flirt so you know your profile sparked our interest because your profile was a good match for us, we liked your photos or, maybe you were close enough to hook up with.
This is suppose to be about having fun. Lets all have fun with this and stop being so hyper critical.

peterandcin55 69F
50 posts
7/12/2017 10:58 pm

we flirt and hotlist a lot....for us it's a form of complementing them it's well deserved to be noticed....cin {=}


Ptr_PnSXL 44M

8/3/2014 12:35 pm

NymphoTeam hit it on the mark, and I hotlisted them myself for most of those exact reasons LOL! I would just like to add that people also hotlist others not because they are interested in the hotlisted party specifically but to browse at their friends list. I will admit to doing this myself on occasion but not so much anymore. One time I hotlisted a guy, and he sent me a nasty message demanding me to remove him from my list because he wasn't gay. I replied "Neither am I, and you sure as hell are not my type. But I don't have time right now to watch all your 35 videos fucking shemales and crossdressers. Hence the hotlist and why I did not send you a message or a flirt. BTW you might not want to comment on other mens' cock pictures if you want to be acknowledged as "straight"." Some people just need to get a grip.


usinbflo 62M/55F
2 posts
5/31/2011 3:24 pm

thanks....we take the flirt and hotlisting as compliments. if someone writes; we reply. everyone should do the same. just keep in mind that flirting and hotlisting does not mean one is interested in dropping everything and heading down the road for sex.


SaddleTrampXXX 67M  
304 posts
5/31/2011 2:33 am

Well I hotlisted you and sent you a flirt because I totally agree with what you wrote and think your pix and profile ROCK!
Best regards to both of you.
Tramp

Shoulda been a cowboy...


StormNBabydoll 47M/47F
23 posts
4/20/2011 8:11 pm

People suck.

And unfortunately, not always in the way we might prefer.

Some people simply don't seem to understand how this site works - we've been hotlisted by people on other continents! I certainly don't expect those people to travel here - but I'd still assume it's a compliment, so I don't see any reason to get upset about it.


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