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Depth Finder- Gottaring Style So gentlemen, I have a challenge for you. Your answers will vary based on your experiences with and intentions for this site, but I ask that you be completely honest. Read the following statements and provide your viewpoint below... "Men will, by and large, choose the path of least resistance when it comes to obtaining sex. Even if it means passing up a "better woman" for a "more willing" one". "The "more willing" woman is always the "better" one". "If a woman requires that the first meeting be public and platonic, she is high maintenance and will probably never give up the goods". "A woman who sleeps with me right away is probably not very scrupulous, even if I met her on a site that promotes sex". "The harder I have to work for her, the more valuable I feel she is". "No matter how nice a woman might be, if we aren't going to have sex, there's no point in continuing to chat, whether in person or online". I'm going to make the responses private and will only publish them with your permission in order to encourage your honesty. Similar questions for the ladies will follow when I have a minute. The only rule is: No judgements from anyone who reads the comments. Keep your mouths shut and let them say what they feel, regardless if you agree with it or not. Get nasty and you WILL be blocked. When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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"Men will, by and large, choose the path of least resistance when it comes to obtaining sex. Even if it means passing up a "better woman" for a "more willing" one". I can't speak for all men. But if this is true, I'm going about it all wrong. "The "more willing" woman is always the "better" one". Nope not always. Some of the best things in life are not easily obtained. Just make sure I know your interested so that I know there is a chance.  Even if getting to the goal is hard I need to know it's attainable."If a woman requires that the first meeting be public and platonic, she is high maintenance and will probably never give up the goods". Nope I disagree. Women have to be careful there are a lot of nut jobs out there. Meeting in public with no expectation of sex the first time around is a good thing. But if things go well that can always be changed. "A woman who sleeps with me right away is probably not very scrupulous, even if I met her on a site that promotes sex". Just because someone is open with their sexuality does not mean they are of low moral standing. In fact I find that the one woman I met here that I had spent the night with (the first night I met her) and sort of slept with depending on your definition of sleeping with someone to be a very moral person. And no she is not a blogger so don't ask. "The harder I have to work for her, the more valuable I feel she is". Typically yes I agree. Assuming she is as smitten as I am. If it is a one sided romance then no it isn't the case. (learned that one the hard way). "No matter how nice a woman might be, if we aren't going to have sex, there's no point in continuing to chat, whether in person or online". I disagree. I chat and blog with many women here that probably don't have the slightest interest in me sexually. But I still cherish them as friends.
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If a woman has sex with me right away I respect her and the choices she made. I try not to force myself on anyone or be pushy. I will respect the person more the more I get to know that person. So waiting until the next time we meet might just make the sex a whole lot enjoyable. Dose this kinda explain my answer more? I give you permission to pimp my blog. Come over to my little slice of blogland.
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8/22/2011 4:24 pm |
"Men will, by and large, choose the path of least resistance when it comes to obtaining sex. Even if it means passing up a "better woman" for a "more willing" one". *** Seems to be true based on most guys I talk to. This doesn't mean they will pass up a beauty queen to get in the pants of a leper though. Personally, this isn't me which is one aspect that I think sets me apart from the general population. *** "The "more willing" woman is always the "better" one". *** Yea, this one I would have to disagree with. *** "If a woman requires that the first meeting be public and platonic, she is high maintenance and will probably never give up the goods". *** This is crap, and totally the way it should be. If sparks fly and they both deside something should happen, they can always leave. But initial meetings MUST!!! ALWAYS be in a public place. Just to see if there really is a connection. It's the best and safest route for all. If someone has a problem with that - move on! *** "A woman who sleeps with me right away is probably not very scrupulous, even if I met her on a site that promotes sex". *** Not true. We are on a sex site for a reason, and if there is chemistry right away, I say why not. As long as both parties feel it is ok, and they have a sense of trust. *** "The harder I have to work for her, the more valuable I feel she is". *** Not true. Some girls are just out there to get a rise out of a guy, lead them on and tease. These days you can't trust anyone. Again we are all here for a reason, sex. That's why a person would come to a sex site. You don't go to the grocery store looking to buy a house now do you? *** "No matter how nice a woman might be, if we aren't going to have sex, there's no point in continuing to chat, whether in person or online". *** This depends on whether or not there's something else there. We are all people. Yea, sure we are at a sex site looking for sex, but you don't throw away a $100 bill when you're on the beach with a metal detector because you were looking for precious metals. If there is another connection there, you may decide to continue the relationship. However, if there's nothing else there, then why continue to spend the time? Kindly part ways and continue to move forward. As beat down as I have been, I still believe that most people are nice. I've only been on this site for a couple weeks and have spoken with many many people. If you're a busy professional person you simply cannot maintain social connections simply because the person was nice. Everything and everyone has a purpose. ***
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8/22/2011 11:49 am |
"Men will, by and large, choose the path of least resistance when it comes to obtaining sex. Even if it means passing up a "better woman" for a "more willing" one". Not true for me. Sometimes men follow the path of most resistance if what is in their heart is compelling. "The "more willing" woman is always the "better" one". No...see answer above. "If a woman requires that the first meeting be public and platonic, she is high maintenance and will probably never give up the goods". Nope...just means she's cautious "A woman who sleeps with me right away is probably not very scrupulous, even if I met her on a site that promotes sex". Not at all. If I am willing to sleep with her, why would that make her less scrupulous than me? "The harder I have to work for her, the more valuable I feel she is". Again, no. Sometimes work is just work. "No matter how nice a woman might be, if we aren't going to have sex, there's no point in continuing to chat, whether in person or online". Big no on that one. I have several online friends I chat with that are purely platonic. Ok to post.
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I tend to disagree with ALL those staements. After being "taken" and then divorced 2 times, MY qualities must be met by the woman (there's a list). I can do the quantity i.e; rubber legs, quivers into the next day, yada yada yada, but I prefer the quality. I've found the quality of a person can lead to something MORE spectacular together.
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8/21/2011 5:36 pm |
SO have you thought about getting to know me better?
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Every situation is new and you need to embrace the newness. Every partner is different and so is every moment. No generalizations means no preconcieved ideas about people.
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"Men will, by and large, choose the path of least resistance when it comes to obtaining sex. Even if it means passing up a "better woman" for a "more willing" one". Answer(Mostly True. But you do have the fun of the chase. Why do you think so many guys would leave and never be seen again after sex. For me I like to get to know the woman better and see if we click. I have more fun come to sex when we can talk and laugh together as well.) "The "more willing" woman is always the "better" one". Answer(  No, the more willing one is sometimes is not the better one.)"If a woman requires that the first meeting be public and platonic, she is high maintenance and will probably never give up the goods". Answer(?? That there is just being smart on the ladies side. You never know you may click online but face to face it can be different.) "The harder I have to work for her, the more valuable I feel she is". Answer( TRUE!!!  )"No matter how nice a woman might be, if we aren't going to have sex, there's no point in continuing to chat, whether in person or online". Answer(I would like to think this is untrue but it happens to men and women. I wish it didnt happen but it does. I can answer this yes and no.)  So have you answered your own questions Gottaring? I give you permission to pimp my blog. Come over to my little slice of blogland.
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8/21/2011 2:03 pm |
Considering I am the path of most resistance when it comes to sleeping with a woman, I answer No to all except the 5th question.
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