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You have to find out because you never never know. Some women have told me that I am very very good. But best kinky one...... Nope not yet. But I do love to explore and it does take two to tango.
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Well I'm an evil pervert bastard cunt manwhore and obviously in a category of my own. Having observed lots of people fucking, I've find most of them kind of boring and lacking in skills and verve, so all I can say, is IMO few people have a real talent for sensuality - bad boy, nice guy, or whomever. All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus
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gottaring replies on 11/11/2012 9:29 pm: I actually thought of you when I was writing this post. You are an enigma, to be sure. So kind, gentle and SWEET that it's hard for me to reconcile the man i met with lifestyle you enjoy. I'm not judging by any means, you know that. But it's strange for me to imagine you with handcuffs and whips, lol. Well I should note that I never use whips. Too dangerous for me, besides I don't really know how to control them. I am learning to use a flogger though. I'm more of a rope and paddle guy.  To me it is more about the trust being given to me to do these types of things (not that I get the chance now that I don't have a partner anymore), then it is about most of the acts themselves. There is an insane amount of trust and respect being exchanged during these acts. Besides there is a lot of room in the lifestyle for sweet and gentle. It just isn't the part of the lifestyle that people focus on.
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I would prefer the cuddle afterwards ...  Something interesting in my life: A surprise on my naked body this morning Come visit my blog to know what I get up to from time to time: [blog 4jasmine2]
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11/11/2012 10:13 am |
You can absolutely find the bad boy with the sweet center. One that listens to your body and knows how to take you to where you need to be. Regardless if that evening you just want to cuddle or if you want to take it to the next level. I do however think every man has the potential... we just need to nurture it and help him develop that alpha male.
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I consider myself a nice sweet guy with a stealth bad boy below the surface and it has been a wonderful surprise to my partners. Sometimes it emerges in the middle of soft slow lovemaking and sometimes it shows up in the elevator.. At times it was just spontaneously triggered by the heat of the moment. Most of the time it was caged, she knew it was building inside me and she had the only key to let it out. I could sense her begging for him through the pace of her breathing, the intensity of her kiss. Her body is the only language the bad boy knows and he listens intently to each gasp and moan for signs that her arousal has grown beyond the bounds of lovemaking. Words are not adequate to describe the tidal wave of passion as the cage opens and lovemaking yields to an unbridled ravishing. I too love the cuddling and spooning of the afterglow but it is so much better if you are both out of breath and drenched in sweat from the heat of the passion.
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It depends on both of you. You know chemistry.... There are some women that I have had sex with and there is a spark in me about her that just ignites me. And then my my my an hour of great pounding sex. To me it takes two to tango.... Rex
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Very interesting question, and one that hits very close to home. I don't think you'll find many people it anyone that wont agree that I'm a "bred in the bones nice guy". But at the same time I have those carnal urges. Thing is it takes me time to get comfortable with someone before I will let myself bring it fully out. Because to be honest that side scares me a little. As a good example. The first time Kittie and I were together. Things started and were heading straight to that carnal area. I was literally bouncing her off the hotel room walls (remember bdsm bottom, she was smiling the whole time, I'd never do that with someone that didn't want me too). Anyways I had put a pair of restraints on her. At one point I grabbed the chain to move her from the bed to the wall again. I gave the chain a good yank, got her to the wall then realized I had snapped the chain in my hand. It scared me right out of the head space I was in and back to something closer to nice guy sex.
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No more mister nice guy  
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I like your post here Gottaring. I will say I do act different with each woman I am with under the covers. I would say when I was younger I was a pussy!! A 100% nice guy who finished last. But over time and experience I have grown up and open up and let that bad boy side of me out when needed. Even letting him out in public as well. I wish you luck with finding sex for this year.  I know I am looking since I lost another FWB this month.I give you permission to pimp my blog. Come over to my little slice of blogland.
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I am totally offended by this post!!  Anyone who has been with me sexually, knows I lay it down. And very well at that. I may not choke the shit out of a woman, if that's the kind of darkness you speak of, but that's walking a fine line. But would you consider me a bad boy? Thank you. Carry on.
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Oh yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus, and yes there are nice guys can can fuck you until your bowlegged and your ass is a red crimson and then spoon you afterwords. But I think it also falls on a woman to tell the man what she likes. Remember you women are supposed to be smarter than us dumb men, and we dumb men can't read minds ya know. Let us know how you are thinking, what mood your in, how you like to be bent over the couch and fucked seven ways 'til Sunday. Make it easier for us and we'll make it nicer for you. Communication is a two way street ya know. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent 
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11/9/2012 7:48 am |
I kinda agree with whatsattau. All we hear about are women who want the nice guy, the good guy (just look at all the women's profiles on here) and then we read posts that women want something else. Maybe that's why men are all fucked up in the head. There is no pleasing your gender! You need two men in your life -- one good and one bad. I can only apply for the good guy, but unfortunately good guys don't share.
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To be honest, 'bad guys' are usually a disappointment for me. They are more talk than actions. They think they are oh-so-kinky, but then, in the bedroom, they are just okay. Confidence is a great treat, but it can also be detrimental (for sex performance). Anyhow, I have had both, 'good boys' and 'bad boys' that we worked out great together, and that we were a disaster together.
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I consider the boyfriend to be a genuine nice guy - but I think he's actually more of a reformed bad boy, and that's something a little bit different.
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You know what they say nice in public but naughty in the bedroom. Or some like that. This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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Nice Guy is my hubby. He started out as a Bad Boy then mellowed out over the years. Im not complaining, with us, its way much more than the act of sex that's holds us together. I do have guy Gay Hookup Zone friends who i just dont have the desire to touch. Not even snuggle. And then... I know a friend you might consider a Nice Guy, but he's totally a Bad Boy behind closed doors. Yah, can be done. "To Be Consumed" Blog : I want to be your drug of painful withdrawals.
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I also know of a sexy, curvy Indian chick who likes football!
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OMG, OMG, OMG! I sh*t you not this is the 5th time I've invoked this old post of mine in the past week, week and a half: The Nice Guy. Nice Guys are whiners who complain about not being appreciated but act so much like doormats they make it impossible to appreciate them. Can a good man be "all business in the boardroom and a decadent hedonist behind closed doors (because really, who wants to confine the fin and games to the bedroom)? Oh hell yes and I could give you a few names  That's one of the reasons I love a man in the suit. There's something so delicious about peeling the "boardroom" off and revealing the warm, randy flesh underneath........ Sorry, I got distracted for a moment
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By the end of the year...come on not be reasonable. You've go to at least buy me a drink first.
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I believe that there is such a thing as a gentleman in public and a man-whore in the bedroom. Does it make him a "nice" guy, not so sure. I think it is someone who is open and communicates with his partner. As we women have often been told, we hold back, (the "we" is a general umbrella)and as much as I hate to admit it, we woman have to own some of our disappointments in the bedroom with the nice guys. I'm very fortunate that the man in my life is a very nice guy, complete gentleman, and then we go behind the doors and he's as bad as I could ever have wished for. He's open-minded, wants to please me, and makes me tell him what I want. So if it's the soft and gentle, he accommodates and when it's hard and furious that's required, he's all over that...I have had handcuff "bruise-bracelets" to remind and look forward to alot more.
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how about a giant sized pervert who is dressing up these days as a decent nice guy? i think i know someone who can fill that role.
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Great Topic GR!! Yep, they can. I've had the opportunity to meet a few that rocked my world into next year, and then cuddled enough afterwards to bring me back to down to the point where my heart wasn't pounding in my chest and I wasn't cross-eyed and drooling. And... yea, I want that again. "You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.
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Maybe I'm not stereotypical, but I truly feel like I'm a "nice guy" who can also rock a woman's world sexually. I might not be as comfortable doing some of the rougher things, but I will do them over time if that's what my partner truly wants. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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