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Blogs > GreenEyedArcher > The Seeking Archer

A question to ponder  

GreenEyedArcher 50F
42 posts
3/19/2014 10:31 am
A question to ponder
If you "say" you are sexy... are you?

If you "say" you are a great lover... are you?

I was once looking for a used couch (yeah, gross, won't be doing that again) and I laughed when the description read "Beautiful Couch!" yet you open up the ad and what do your eyes behold? Some lopsided brown, stained thing you wouldn't even let your sit on.

Beauty is in the eye of beholder, I can't say if I am beautiful or not. I can't say if I am a great lover or not. It's all up for interpretation.

"BEAUTIFUL couch for you!!!"
Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
3/19/2014 10:38 am

 If I had a dog without a doubt he/she could sit sit on that couch anytime they liked......yes some people's perspective on all things
beautiful is a wee bit skewed.


funintc22 56M/54F  
81 posts
3/19/2014 11:46 am

 We agree with you here. Almost all ad's here say Attractive, Good looking (G, and Sexy. WE look at their profile and say WHAT... We know were not Ken and Barbie, average we think. That's why we don't say that. We let who's looking at our profile decide what they think if we are a fit in that category. Same with body type's average vs, athletic.

Ton's of false advertising here...


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
3/19/2014 12:03 pm

 I see men describe themselves as athletic when they should just be claiming average. Average is good but please be honest about it.


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
3/19/2014 12:25 pm

 I let others make those decisions for me.
Be safe, relax and just have fun!


NudeDon69 54M  
1442 posts
3/19/2014 1:42 pm

 I guess those guys do not know the difference between a poster of a movie star and a mirror. Don't forget the ones that say "Vary enteligent"

That is why I just put it out there and let you decide.
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TXArmyWife 51F
1964 posts
3/19/2014 2:35 pm

 I think, sexy is a state of mind. If I say I'm sexy, am I? Hell yes! That being said, putting it in your profile seems to tell people, that's what I want you to think, so I wouldn't do it. I don't, by the way, think I am sexy all of the time!! Lol
I need a really great kiss!!


dublos 58M
132 posts
3/19/2014 4:19 pm

 Yep.. that'd be one reason that all this finding compatible partners stuff is difficult..

What I think is sexy might be completely boring to some people..

What I think of of as a great lover could mean totally different behaviors to someone else.

The best we can do is be the best us that we can be.

When you find someone that you find sexy and finds that best you to be sexy, then you are one step forward on the right path.

If you get together with them and they find your best loving to be just what they consider to be a great lover and you find them to be a great lover you're a lot further along that right path..

But the only way we really have to find those people is to go through a lot of people who aren't them.


PutterH 57M
209 posts
3/20/2014 9:18 am

 I always say - under-promise and over-deliver.


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