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You called me what !!!
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You called me what !!! You called me what !!!  It has always intrigued me that I loved to be called bad names while doing the nasty. ( but not during an intimate evening, where calling me beautiful and telling how much you love me has almost the same effect) Look me in the eye and call me a, nasty bitch Call me a, nasty slut Whisper in my ear how much of a filthy , I am Slap my bottom and tell me how much of a fucking cunt, I am even. and I almost always turn it up a notch or two. Call me those names any other time well let's just say your face might sting alittle bit after wards. The first time it happened, I was about 20 and it was with a guy I was dating, we were in the back of the car, and things were well not going to well for me but now for him it was.. when he entered me he leaned forward, looked me in the eyes and told me what a wonderful nasty cunt I was.. needless to say it helped me get there I was so surprised afterward and felt bad that it had this kind of effect on me. I sat there and cried.. I would think ,what you have no self respect or what ?? now over the years I've gotten use to it, desire it even, but the why still nags me. In the past I would think it had to do with my self worth like I said, but I am a very secure and confident woman these days but it still has a profound effect on me. Anyone out there who has this answer?? studied behavioral science Probably not. I know this has been asked and asked , but it was on my mind today. Do you ever wonder why you like to be called it? or do you like it even.. Now I know why I like or dislike other things but this one I'm still not seeing... I gotta ask guys/gals do you ever feel uncomfortable calling your partner names like this ?? Tell me your story about the first time someone called you a bad name , talked dirty to ya,during sex , did you like it ?? react like me 4  if love isn't the answer, than I misunderstood the question |
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I had a friend that enjoyed that. The first time she asked me to do it I wasn't sure about saying it but after I did, wow, she was really into it .
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Granted, there's a time and place for everything, a time for "romantic" talk, and then there's time for the "nasty and filthy" talk. A lot of times (with the right girl/woman) in real heat of sex, that nasty and filthy talk DOES have it's place, Yes, it does get both of us "going", seems to "take it up a notch", making the sex even hotter. I totally agree with you L.L.L., I love it too........but then again L.L.L., you and I are always on the same wavelength on many things....and I LIKE that too.......    .
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I couldn't believe the first time... It actually happened years ago in high school... My mouth dropped as this young lady began calling me names and encouraging me to all heights of eroticism... It came out of nowhere... I wasn't expecting this and she was so hot and into the moment... Wow, that memory came to me as I was reading... because I wasn't doing the name calling... she was... I wasn't the aggressor, she was... Later on in life, I discovered that not all women enjoy the name calling... they felt it demeaning to women... However, the women that did and encouraged it seemed to lose themselves with me and have the most incredible orgasms they've ever known... Well, that's what they say... Answer me this... why do some women want you to call out their name? I know who I am with during sex... They should know that I know, and, yet they ask me to shout out their name... And, this has happened multiple times with the same woman... They can't explain it... They attribute it to the heat of the moment... The first time this happened to me, I thought of the song 'That's not my name' by the Ting Tings... I don't know why, but, that's what I thought... Kind of threw me off guard, but I was able to recover and continue, thank god!!! and, that's all I have to say about that LLL! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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