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Cheaters!
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Cheaters! Yes, I'm a cheater. I don't cheat nearly as often as some of you probably think I do but yes, I do cheat and probably would more often if I had more opportunities. Of course, what I mean by opportunities is not simply willing partners but situations where I wouldn't get caught and wouldn't bring home some nasty infection of some kind. Finding willing partners is the easy part. I'm not the most charming guy in the world but I can talk my fair share of women into bed. I'm also not the best looking guy in the world but again, I can also attract some pretty good looking women and even the occasional great looking one. It also doesn't hurt that I am bi. Finding willing male partners is incredibly easy. The problem is the time, energy, lying, and sneaking around that needs to go into it. It would be so much easier if more people just gave into their primal instincts, let go, and had some fun. Humans are one of a handful of species that are monogamous. At least humans are a species that claims to be monogamous. There are really even fewer species that actually are. There are several women in my life where there is an obvious mutual attraction. We flirt, we tease, and sometimes even joke around about hooking up but some of them are also attached and some of them also know my wife. Wouldn't the world be a much better place if we could satisfy the urges, get together, and just fuck like the animals that we are? Wouldn't it be even nicer if our partners knew and didn't have an issue with it? I love my wife. I know that some of you will dispute that and say that I would at the very least be more honest with if if I truly loved her but I really do. I just feel that sex is such a small part of our lives and don't feel the desire to leave the person that I love just because we are not all that sexually compatible. Sure, I could leave her and sleep around with many different women and maybe some men. Sure, I could also be more honest about my desires sexually and have her leave me. Sure, I could probably find someone more compatible that would join into a swinger lifestyle with me but I really do love my wife. I don't want to hurt her and I don't want to leave her. I just feel that I should be able to live out some of my fantasies and have a little fun on the side where no one gets hurt. I find it sad that there is such a stigma attached to that. I wish that people would be more open and adventurous when it comes to sex. It's fun and it feels good. Why does it need to be any more than that? Hardly anyone has a problem with me watching porn and jerking off while I'm fantasizing about other people but as soon as I want to actually touch someone else, the attitudes all change. Suddenly there is some unwritten moral code that covers all mankind that forbids this type of behavior. I find it very odd that people who claim to be looking to just "hookup" or some "NSA" sex would get so hung up on the whole married thing. If there are truly no feelings involved, you're not looking for a relationship, and you're just having some fun, what difference does it make? Neither of us are hurting my wife unless you track her down somehow and tell her. If that truly is what you are looking for, I would think that a married partner would be perfect. There would be no pretense of a relationship or falling in love. Just two consenting adults having a good time. |
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Just a little clarification to this article. I'm not saying that I'm not an asshole for cheating. I'm simply curious as to why it needs to be this way.
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