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Don't talk to strangers...  

Emystique 47F
23 posts
2/19/2017 8:54 pm
Don't talk to strangers...


As a girl growing up you hear this all the time. And I get it. I tell my the same. But as an adult woman who grew up having fear instilled in her, that's no way to live. It is a mentality I have fought to get rid of, and can honestly say that I have met the nicest, interesting, eclectic people from all walks of life both from this site, and in life in general, once I decided to let go of this brainwashing.

People out there just want to connect, whether be it physically, intellectually, or emotionally. So girls, let go of the fear, open yourself up to new opportunities, just be safe about it. Enjoy the possibilities of the unknown. Being a control freak, it was my biggest challenge. Learning to let go, and see what comes out of every encounter has been freeing to say the least. And I definitely am enjoying my freedom.

I recently turned 40, and after having hyperventilated for a while, I embraced it. I have never lied about my age, and never will. I enjoy what opportunities life brings my way, and with age has come experience in learning to breath and take things as they come. Don't know why I was feeling so philosophical today, but really this note is meant for myself. It's about the internal journey I have been on, and about continuing to convince myself to keep taking those leaps of faith into the unknown. Somehow I always land on my feet.

I am far from your typical girl, and that's ok. The things I like might be different. You don't have to like them too. Just respect them and be non judgemental.
And if anyone can't keep up, fucken NEXT...
I will not change for anyone.
I will not tone myself down because someone thinks I am too intense.
Fuck that shit.
Life is too short, and I am too fucken AWESOME!

Mystique

looking9300 59M
7 posts
2/20/2017 9:37 am

Great insight, everyone is so guarded.


eyewantu2010 73M

3/10/2017 7:29 am

yes you are fucken awesome


Edlucky6946 54M
23 posts
5/8/2017 8:38 pm

You just need to keep going and stay yourself Mystique, be free in your mind, feel good with your body, and don't let people climb and cross your brick wall. You shared some parst of your private garden and I tough everyone should say thank you , to be a different and real strong woman. Taste the present life moment it's the only reason we should live everyday xxxxx


Emystique 47F
7 posts
11/6/2017 12:06 am

Thank you all for your comments and encouragement


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