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Finally... The Secret To Getting Laid... Is Revealed... 😱
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Looks are secondary in my book. Intelligence with wit and laughter for bookends makes my day always. I'm presuming, some of that wit, would be based on shared interests and the ability to relate to each other, on multiple levels. Do you provide a 'reading list', or syllabus for prospective candidates? Just as an example.... In my case; I always give 'her' a list of ' must have watched movies', before we go for that first, cup of coffee. ☕🤔 I know... it sounds harsh, right? But trust me... it saves me a lot of time. Especially, when I'm making some vague humorous, anecdotal, reference to a scene in ; Groundhog Day, Matrix, Moonstruck, Casablanca, Uncle Buck... or Hellboy 2 (just to name a few) ... and she looks at me... and blinks... Ya know what I mean? 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yes... definitely a good sense of humor is attractive. I like guys who can make that dry, deadpan observation that cracks you up. Whimsical/goofy is fun, too (that would be the guy I'm currently seeing - and also my female flirtation partner, MM). What doesn't do it for me is joke telling (as someone else already commented). I'll go as far to say that when someone here does a blog post that is solely the retelling of a somewhat lame joke, it goes from being not a turn-on, to actively being a turn-off.   
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And, uh oh, I guess I am ruled out as ever being a potential partner since I have never seen Hellboy 
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And, uh oh, I guess I am ruled out as ever being a potential partner since I have never seen Hellboy I was trying to be funny. Did you smile? 😶 You're still on the list... 📃I'm working on upping, my pain threshold... 😱 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yes... definitely a good sense of humor is attractive. I like guys who can make that dry, deadpan observation that cracks you up. Whimsical/goofy is fun, too (that would be the guy I'm currently seeing - and also my female flirtation partner, MM). What doesn't do it for me is joke telling (as someone else already commented). I'll go as far to say that when someone here does a blog post that is solely the retelling of a somewhat lame joke, it goes from being not a turn-on, to actively being a turn-off. I'm not much of a joke guy either. Not to your level, but I can see your point. So.... I'll be polite when I read those and give a hearty lol. Which brings to mind... Did you hear about, the clown, the Domme and St. Peter... who all meet in a bar? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Oh... you're too kind. 😊 Thank you. Yep... it's right up there, for me as well. In your case... there's a lot... that glows. 😘 It is a real pleasure to meet a woman who can make me smile... without taking off, a stitch of clothing. 😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yeah.... I've never seen it either... I was trying to be funny. Did you smile? 😶 You're still on the list... 📃I'm working on upping, my pain threshold... 😱  Just to clarify, it isn’t a requirement for someone to be into BDSM, for me to date them. But if they’re vanilla, they need to be open minded enough to be ok with the fact that a lot of my friends are kinksters and I go to parties and do BDSM stuff with them...that is not sexual per se, but can be pretty intimate. Which can be kind of a high bar for a lot of folks to cross...
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.... yeah... That should have been :... barely read or write... It was a Typo.. Thanks for THAT capture! 📝😊 I'm doing all of this, on my phone and stuff slips through the cracks, on this tiny screen... lol 📱😁 Much appreciated! 👍😘
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"Now it's my turn to chortle. Really? Size has no bearing on choices women make?" Of course size has a bearing ..... just not always the way one expects. Things need to fit right. Shoes. Senses of humor. Appendages. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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I guess this is one of those situations, where someone didn’t pick up on your deadpan, ha (with regard to Hellboy). Just to clarify, it isn’t a requirement for someone to be into BDSM, for me to date them. But if they’re vanilla, they need to be open minded enough to be ok with the fact that a lot of my friends are kinksters and I go to parties and do BDSM stuff with them...that is not sexual per se, but can be pretty intimate. Which can be kind of a high bar for a lot of folks to cross... I try to imagine 'that' intimacy in front of a crowd like that. I'm just intrigued by just how 'intimate, it can get. Q? How many people are there? R we talking about sexual intimacy with everyone watching? Hey... if it's an inappropriate Q for this space, then get it. 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Lol, I thought it was on purpose based on the blog. I normally dont point out issues because I am a horrible typist. Sorry I usually post and then walk away. So I wouldn't have caught that one. It slipped out! Yep.. please don't stop with the edits! By the way... It didn't quite make sense with that error... lol? Thanks again. 😉 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Jokes... are not my favorite, either. It's that added confidence that tip things for me, when I meet a woman as well. 😘 It's true that everyone has... a different idea of what humour is. I sometimes wonder if everyone gets 'mine', over here... 😱 Are you ever misunderstood, and people think you're serious? That has happened to me... a few times... omg 😱 Oh well... 😶 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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"Now it's my turn to chortle. Really? Size has no bearing on choices women make?" Of course size has a bearing ..... just not always the way one expects. Things need to fit right. Shoes. Senses of humor. Appendages. Makes perfect sense. 👌👍 I love that first fitting.... when you're slipping things in, for the first time. And when there's a perfect fit, it feels more like a really, really nice sweatshirt you're trying, rather than those new shoes you're trying to push into. That was an analogy. 😶 Hey... it's Monday... I'm warming up. 😘😁 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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True that a woman would prefer a man with a healthy sense of humor, but this "Preference" is in her column listed "Secondary". In her "Primary" column, "Humor" is not listed. Men - You want to increase the traffic on your profile? Make it funny.... No.. that would be really stupid, because "Humor" is perceptual phenomenon, the man needs to be known of, or personally known , first. Some idiot writing jokes in his profile will not be getting women hitting up his in-box to get laid. More likely she'll wonder if the guy is a weirdo. When you're in meeting in person, then you can bring on the funnies..... but when she can't sense you ...only looking at a profile, don't make jokes. You don't know how a woman is going to perceive them, if she can at all. Include jokes.... Not a good idea. Maybe you can get away with saying your favorite joke... but even that would be a bad idea. You don't know if that might offend her, and then -poof- you don't even have a shot at getting into her pussy. Women - You want to attract the man you're looking for? ....Say you keep a clean home, clean body, you cook, and like having sex. Done. Men will be filling up your in-box. ..... You do not need to tell men you like humorous men, unless you can tell him emphatically a good joke will have you mounting him like a ravenous woman. Include in your profile, an expressed desire, to find a humorous man. .... No... don't do that...Then you're inviting any man with internet access to jokes, to try and hit you up. if he's funny... then he's also likely to be, that intelligent man - ....Don't count on it, girls. Who's to say, she'll laugh at your stupid jokes and dumb ass, witty observations?... As I said, "Humor" is in column B. If she likes the guy, she's going to respond favorably to dumb ass wit. If she doesn't like him? He can have all jokes in the world downloaded into his brain, and he is NOT getting laid.
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A sense of humor in a man is quite important...it shows he doesn't take himself too seriously. (No comment on dick size, lol.  )"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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True that a woman would prefer a man with a healthy sense of humor, but this "Preference" is in her column listed "Secondary". In her "Primary" column, "Humor" is not listed. Men - You want to increase the traffic on your profile? Make it funny.... No.. that would be really stupid, because "Humor" is perceptual phenomenon, the man needs to be known of, or personally known , first. Some idiot writing jokes in his profile will not be getting women hitting up his in-box to get laid. More likely she'll wonder if the guy is a weirdo. When you're in meeting in person, then you can bring on the funnies..... but when she can't sense you ...only looking at a profile, don't make jokes. You don't know how a woman is going to perceive them, if she can at all. Include jokes.... Not a good idea. Maybe you can get away with saying your favorite joke... but even that would be a bad idea. You don't know if that might offend her, and then -poof- you don't even have a shot at getting into her pussy. Women - You want to attract the man you're looking for? ....Say you keep a clean home, clean body, you cook, and like having sex. Done. Men will be filling up your in-box. ..... You do not need to tell men you like humorous men, unless you can tell him emphatically a good joke will have you mounting him like a ravenous woman. Include in your profile, an expressed desire, to find a humorous man. .... No... don't do that...Then you're inviting any man with internet access to jokes, to try and hit you up. if he's funny... then he's also likely to be, that intelligent man - ....Don't count on it, girls. Who's to say, she'll laugh at your stupid jokes and dumb ass, witty observations?... As I said, "Humor" is in column B. If she likes the guy, she's going to respond favorably to dumb ass wit. If she doesn't like him? He can have all jokes in the world downloaded into his brain, and he is NOT getting laid. Jokes... ain't gonna cut it. You're right about that.😊 But you know, what I mean. Then again... not everyone does. Do you think they are honing up on their jokes? omg... lol 😁 Funny.. Where does your sense of humour play a role? Yep.... jokes ARE lame.. for sure. Do you have any favorites.. btw? lol? 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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True that a woman would prefer a man with a healthy sense of humor, but this "Preference" is in her column listed "Secondary". In her "Primary" column, "Humor" is not listed. Men - You want to increase the traffic on your profile? Make it funny.... No.. that would be really stupid, because "Humor" is perceptual phenomenon, the man needs to be known of, or personally known , first. Some idiot writing jokes in his profile will not be getting women hitting up his in-box to get laid. More likely she'll wonder if the guy is a weirdo. When you're in meeting in person, then you can bring on the funnies..... but when she can't sense you ...only looking at a profile, don't make jokes. You don't know how a woman is going to perceive them, if she can at all. Include jokes.... Not a good idea. Maybe you can get away with saying your favorite joke... but even that would be a bad idea. You don't know if that might offend her, and then -poof- you don't even have a shot at getting into her pussy. Women - You want to attract the man you're looking for? ....Say you keep a clean home, clean body, you cook, and like having sex. Done. Men will be filling up your in-box. ..... You do not need to tell men you like humorous men, unless you can tell him emphatically a good joke will have you mounting him like a ravenous woman. Include in your profile, an expressed desire, to find a humorous man. .... No... don't do that...Then you're inviting any man with internet access to jokes, to try and hit you up. if he's funny... then he's also likely to be, that intelligent man - ....Don't count on it, girls. Who's to say, she'll laugh at your stupid jokes and dumb ass, witty observations?... As I said, "Humor" is in column B. If she likes the guy, she's going to respond favorably to dumb ass wit. If she doesn't like him? He can have all jokes in the world downloaded into his brain, and he is NOT getting laid. What I should have said was... just be funny. That's a tough one to be? Isn't it. Yep... you're right. Jokes ain't cutting it! 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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A sense of humor in a man is quite important...it shows he doesn't take himself too seriously. (No comment on dick size, lol. )I know that sometimes... you don't always get my sense of humour. It's ok. Humour is always a risk. Isn't it? 😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yep understood. I try to imagine 'that' intimacy in front of a crowd like that. I'm just intrigued by just how 'intimate, it can get. Q? How many people are there? R we talking about sexual intimacy with everyone watching? Hey... if it's an inappropriate Q for this space, then get it. 😶 Short answer is - it varies The parties that I go to regularly usually have around twenty guests. But that doesn't mean there'll be 18 people watching me and my play partner, because some people are going to be doing their own scenes and others might be socializing in the kitchen. But there could be a handful of people watching. There are other events with much larger numbers of attendees; like there's a quarterly party that usually has 75-100 people. In terms of intimacy, I'm fairly low key about it. But just as examples, if I'm spanking someone I might give them a break by stopping to caress their ass instead. If I'm flogging someone who's standing up, maybe I take a break and put my arms around them from behind, whisper in their ear to check in, and so forth. The last scene that I did with my friend MM, I was on a padded table and she was crawling around on top of me and at one point rubbed her (covered) crotch on my face. So none of that is "sex" per se but it is the kind of stuff that could bother someone who you're dating, if there is any insecurity. And there are other people who actually do have sex, but it's not really all that common at a public play party. In fact I think I've only seen a guy fucking a woman once in 10 years. And a couple times I've seen a woman with a strap-on with another woman...
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4/9/2019 6:27 am |
"Ok... not only is that true... but it's funny! 😁 I'm guessing... you're successful in your pursuit of female companionship...? Yep.. Good one. Drop by any time. 👍" thank you for the invite. and as for the pursuit part... i think i am living on the bad part of the island.... or maybe they don't like the bait i am using! but the lake seems to be dry the days i am fishing there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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"Ok... not only is that true... but it's funny! 😁 I'm guessing... you're successful in your pursuit of female companionship...? Yep.. Good one. Drop by any time. 👍" thank you for the invite. and as for the pursuit part... i think i am living on the bad part of the island.... or maybe they don't like the bait i am using! but the lake seems to be dry the days i am fishing Best of luck! 🐡 🐙 🏕️ 🐟 🏖️ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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4/10/2019 4:47 am |
Good blog!
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Good blog! ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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What a great read and your absolutely one hundred percent correct, on men needing to have a great sense of humor. I hope you have a great hump day.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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What a great read and your absolutely one hundred percent correct, on men needing to have a great sense of humor. I hope you have a great hump day.. For me... humour is a deal breaker... She has to be able to laugh at my silliness... lol 😁 Men do need to lighten up. I find some here and even in the real world, are just wound up so tight. Makes for no fun at all, no? 😊😘 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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