0 posts 12/5/2019 6:46 pm
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12/12/2019 10:55 am
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My first questions.....(1)
[I]If someone/s at your pictures every day or almost ever day and you know you are being jerked off too..... What does that mean?
If your pictures are being jerked off to a lot. How can the person not be interested in you in the flesh?
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4838 posts 12/12/2019 10:35 am |
Quoting seems6666:
How can you see how long someone has viewed you for? that's a new one.. where do you see that 
Most views are fake, conjured up by algorithms
I wasn't calling you a liar, I was asking a genuine question, I thought it was a new feature.
I'be been on here nearly 15 years on and off, so I do know a bit about it 
The site generates views to keep you interested, a man kept "viewing" me, so I tried to chat with him... I blogged about it, he said he hadn't viewed me once!
Every time I log on, the same people are "viewing me", some might be, well I hope they are  but I take most views with a pinch of salt
BBW56Sally replies on 12/12/2019 10:55 am:
Thank you, for explaining and I am sorry for my misunderstanding... I have experienced the same where I would than someone for viewing my profile and was told straight up they had not visited my profile... I got a rude IM the other day with a man shouting at me... I AM NOT IN TO FAT LADIES! LOL! I never had ever even see the man or his profile and was trying to understand why he thought I had.... I left him a message I have never visited him....
Kisses,
Sally |
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9800 posts 12/7/2019 3:39 pm |
It could be they just count you out.Since most cougars are assumed to be ageists.Making those who might be viewing your profile wondering if they should try and see what happens or perhaps something else came to their attention.
Using more than all the road!
BBW56Sally replies on 12/7/2019 4:06 pm:
Thank you, for reading my Blog and your response. I respect your thoughts and your own feelings regarding the topic. You may very well be right... But no body has the right to judge any one for their age or their desires for certain people? Everyone judges others, because of our size, shape and some times even color and some times they just know that person is not right for me.
I Believe its about the number of times the younger can cum, the stamina they have and the amount of cum they produce.... Sorry But most not all men have a problem cumming more than one time in a night from their mid 50's on ( again not all). Some Gentleman In their 40's already suffer with ED and medication is not helping the poor men... my heart breaks for those men. But does this make a person an ageist when they are only looking for sex? just like 80% of the people on this hook up site?
If any or all of this applied to me so be it... I do not deserve to be with any one.... But my last comment is I do not judge others, I am not an ageist, but I do know when I see what I like and desire.
kisses,
Sally |
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1445 posts 12/6/2019 8:39 pm |
There's a lot of possible reasons why, and what others have previously mention are all valid. I'd sound like a broken record stuck in a groove to repeat any.
It's the nature of the beast (for lack of a better term), that lots of people encounter on any online dating site. Guys experience it too, though I'm not sure to what extent as opposed to us ladies... ?
It's a bit discouraging, but if they're interested, they'll reach out and send a message. I don't expect all the views to my profile to end in a direct message, though I am hopeful.
"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
BBW56Sally replies on 12/6/2019 9:21 pm:
Thank you, so very much for reading my Blog and for your response. It means a lot to hear from you... I thought I was supposed to reach out as well... from what I am hearing and learning … I need to just cool it and let the interested parties contact me and go from there.
So be it.... I will do just that... Not any problem for me...
Kisses,
Sally |
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12/6/2019 11:16 am
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unfortunately some people cant gather the courage to meet in person ,,,, its their loss Sally mmmm you are so yummy mmmm
BBW56Sally replies on 12/6/2019 5:19 pm:
Thank you so very much for your sweet thoughts about me.... Yes , have had a lot of being stood up.... I am told by others that I scare them with my high sex drive and because I love to please the man so much that they fear they can not compete.... Sex is not a competson so I do not understand....
I used to let it break my heart, but now I look at it as their loss and very rude, because they should message me or call me and lets talk about it or apologize to me...…
But to tell me when I message them would you like to play with me in the flesh... Now these men I message are local or 1 hour or less away from me. The message back " I am not interested, good luck"! Now I am being told some men see pictures to cum to and really are not into that person. If that is the case ok... I will accept that, but it just seems to me if your going to jerk off why would you pick someone you are not interested in constantly jerk off to them... I understand the accidently thumbnail but they do not register on the viewed files.... although the profile pic does pop up.... So if the profile pic pops up and I delet4e and it keeps popping up that means some one it viewing and viewing for a little while...
Thank you, so very much for reading my Blog and for responding I did enjoy reading your thoughts and desires for me....
Kisses,
Sally |
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4838 posts 12/6/2019 8:10 am |
How can you see how long someone has viewed you for? that's a new one.. where do you see that
Most views are fake, conjured up by algorithms
BBW56Sally replies on 12/6/2019 9:48 am:
Thank you, for reading my Blog. You are talking over my head now... I have a laptop and anyone that does any thing on my profile... be it view it, flirt, hot lists, message me.. etc.... their profile picture pops up for everything they do...I guess the time is a miss conception on my part, but when I delete the pic off the side of my lap top screen and it keeps popping back up to me it means they are still viewing my profile....
why are most views fake? what is the purpose to fake views? I do know sometimes the profile pics on my screen or IM messaged never show any viewings in my viewing files and I do not understand that... How can someone chatting with me on IM bae looking at my profile and yet not be part of my viewing files? so I have found some misconceptions and not sure what is going on... But if your inferring I am lying, I assure I am not a lier….I am asking these questions because I do not understand and asking for help to understand....
Why are you asking me questions if you know so much and not answering my questions?
Thank you again for reading my blog and for any help you may be able to do to help me understand what is happening....
kisses,
Sally |
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1567 posts 12/5/2019 11:50 pm |
Hi Sally, Have you tired to write to him? That way you'll take out all the guess work and know for sure what you want to know.
BBW56Sally replies on 12/6/2019 2:31 am:
Yes, I have sent messages to all the gold members that I have observed being regulars at my profile and have contacted Standard members by IM. All return messages I got back said "Sorry I am not interested, good luck!"
So as you can see I did write and still do not understand why men local and anyone with in an hour of me that is single, divorce or widowed. I do not understand why they want to be on line jerking off to my pictures instead playing in the flesh with me.
Thank you, for your response and reading my blog.
Kisses,
Sally |
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12/5/2019 9:47 pm
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I might be missing something, and god knows I likely am, but when it come to views and all the other metrics that the site uses to try to convince you that something is going on . . . .the software lies . . . .well not lies exactly but is extremely liberal in its interpterion of what constitutes a view, A curser lingers a little too long over a thumbnail and that is recorded.
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 10:24 pm:
Thank you, that make very much sense... For the members in general. Because I sometimes do not realize when I am typing I am on another thumbnail! But with that said... What I am talking about is happening to often to be thumbnail errors...
I am talking about actual views or visits to my profile pictures for very long times. like over 3 minutes... Again I am flattered at giving men great pleasure with my pictures. But I need to have men in the flesh giving me pleasure... I have noticed that I will get a person show up on my computer as viewing my profile, but when I visit my view me file some are not there and I believe those are thumb nail visits or Thumbnail errors since they are not in my viewed me file.
The actual views are in my viewed me file over 1-3 mins are just viewing me.... Jerking off viewers are at least 30 mins for most but some could be ready to burst when they get to the picture....
thank you, again very much for you response>
Kisses,
Sally |
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14 posts 12/5/2019 8:43 pm |
Unfortunately there are lots of people on here for pure fantasy.
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 8:48 pm:
Thank you! for your response. That would make sense, an not as hurtful as being told I could be a ole shit bag with titts and ass to jerk off too. Never had interest...
I never realized there was that many fantasies makers here... Makes a lot of sense though.
I need flesh making sex and do not understand why I am not getting any...
Thank you, again very much for your honesty and kindness..
Kisses,
Sally |
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12/5/2019 7:59 pm
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I only look at what I like, and if I likes it, I jerks it. Even better if I get contacted to come in person. Most the time ive seen that me being the first to act, gets no reaction.
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 8:22 pm:
Thank you, for responding to my question. I understand about liking it and jerking it... and if attached, married or to far to play, jerking it. I am very flattered to bring great pleasure to men.
But when I see the same person all the time, local or with in an hour I do message and ask would you not like to play in person? " Sorry I am not interested, Good Luck!" is want I get back. I am not talking about a few men. I am talking about almost all the men, I message... So I do not understand.
By the way I always try to respond to all who contact me especially is a message. I think it is rude not to. But if I am not attracted I will also tell them then so as to not string someone a long....
Kisses,
Sally |
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25 posts 12/5/2019 7:53 pm |
Reach out...maybe they do want you.
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17 posts 12/5/2019 7:53 pm |
Guess they like what they see. Enjoy it
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 8:28 pm:
Thank you for responding and I am very flattered to give men great pleasure when not in person, married, attached, to far away, even close, etc....
But I am here to get great pleasure as well in the flesh... another to get gratification, satisfaction, to explode the most … ETC...
I do not understand is the locals, or the ones with in an hour away who visit my pictures and I message the and ask would they be interested in me in the flesh. I get back " Sorry I am not interested, Good Luck!"
I do not understand... How can your jerk off to me all the time and not be interested in the flesh... the real thing?
Kisses,
Sally |
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12/5/2019 7:43 pm
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you have beautiful and wonderful photographs 
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 7:53 pm:
Thank you, so very much. But then why am I not getting any flesh play out of my pictures?
kisses,
Sally |
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1295 posts 12/5/2019 7:26 pm |
If they are looking it means they like what they see.. Perhaps if your curious send them a message asking them why
JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 7:57 pm:
Thank you! But I do send them a message to the frequent visitors and ask "would you not enjoy flesh play instead?" I get back every time " Sorry I am not interested. Good luck"
This is why I ask the questions... because I do not understand...
Kisses,
Sally |
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13128 posts 12/5/2019 7:16 pm |
Guess what I'm doing right now ? * smirk *
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 7:58 pm:
HAHA! sweet! Now can you answer my questions?
Why are they not interested in me in the flesh?
kisses,
Sally |
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28 posts 12/5/2019 7:09 pm |
You should consider it a compliment
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 8:03 pm:
Please do not get me wrong I am very flattered, with giving men great pleasure.... but I am here for pleasure as well in the flesh.... so why just the pictures and not me in the flesh? when I ask would they not prefer me they always say "Sorry! Not interested! Good luck!"
Kisses,
Sally |
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12/5/2019 6:59 pm
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Maybe you are just to far away for them to meet with you . So better to jerk off than not have you in the flesh.
BBW56Sally replies on 12/5/2019 8:06 pm:
Thank you, so very much and true many are to far away and I am not bothered by them nor do I message them... it is the local or close gentlemen that are with in one hour I message and ask would they not prefer me in the flesh and am told Sorry not interested...
thus, my question... I am not talking about a few men I am talking about many men...
kisses,
Sally |
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