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Blogs > tackman57 > Thoughts of a very busy mind.

Why do "not interested" people keep looking at your profile?!  

tackman57 56M  
68 posts
1/1/2014 5:51 pm

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4/2/2018 5:03 pm
Why do "not interested" people keep looking at your profile?!

I live in a relatively rural area so members on this site who live in my area are fairly scarce. I have contacted a couple of them who have said they were not interested and I accepted their decision and haven't contacted them since. BUT, these folk keep looking in on my profile! I wonder, do you suppose they are: 1. "thinking about changing their minds," 2. "wishing they had taken me up on my offer," 3. "sorry they said no but too embarrassed to retract and say yes," OR 4. (what I believe) weird-ass fools that I should block?! If there were more members who lived in my area I wouldn't mind all that much but really, if someone "isn't interested," why do they keep looking in on my profile?!

buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
1/1/2014 5:55 pm

 I think you should take into consideration the thought that your photo shows up on the home page when they sign in, and when they mouse over it, it ends up showing as they looked at your profile, when in fact, it is just that they moused over the page and you happened to be on it.

I have gotten emails from men who said "I see you looked at my profile" when I definitely did not, so something is screwy.
2022... it HAS be better, right?!


sacto95825 56M
95 posts
1/6/2014 8:32 am
    Quoting buxombbw4u:
    I think you should take into consideration the thought that your photo shows up on the home page when they sign in, and when they mouse over it, it ends up showing as they looked at your profile, when in fact, it is just that they moused over the page and you happened to be on it.

    I have gotten emails from men who said "I see you looked at my profile" when I definitely did not, so something is screwy.
I second your observation and assessment ... happens all the time on the site and this is a logical explanation ..


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