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Dick Pics (Poll for women)  

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
7/21/2021 5:26 pm

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    As you have never met me you have no clue how opposite your assumption of what type of person I am is. LOL It isn't pathetic, it is the truth. There are men all over the site posting in blogs and the advice lines how they did NOT get laid on here and certainly NOT in 24 hours as the ads read. What is pathetic is that there is a huge number of people, mostly men, that think this is an online whorehouse and you just sign up, post a dick pic, and they sit back and wait for pussy to arrive at their door as if they got a free pizza delivered to them. In reality that NEVER happens to men on here, if it does they are in a very slim number. I even remember the 'guarantee to get laid' ads that were placed and the men that were totally pissed off because they did NOT read the fine print! That fine print said you had to maintain a gold membership for 3 months, send out 3 emails per day, AND write blogs!!! Most people don't even know there are blogs on here and there is a group of people on here JUST to blog and that includes men... yes MEN!! Their profiles state clearly they are here JUST to blog.

    I would only be unpleasant to you because you can't get what you want from me. LOL I have quite the following on my cam show and guess what? I am NOT here to meet anyone nor ever have. There are others here JUST to cam and not meet anyone. There are men as well as women here looking for more than 100 one night stands. You may not even realize it, but there is a Magazine section in here that even has different articles and things, mostly written by people on the site, including a 'success' section. I know personally of multiple people on here that got married. LOL They just were not so shallow as to think this was just a site full of people only to be used and tossed away. Are there people here looking for just sex? ABSOLUTELY, but there are many here looking for more than JUST sex. You see only what you want to see. Try actually being more open minded and realize that there are people, men and women, that LOVE sex and want a partner for long term that likes to fuck rather than just a bunch of one time stranger encounters.
Itsallfantasy: He must think this is Jimmy Johns.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/21/2021 5:46 pm

    Quoting MissCinders:
    Well of course you are because you are married. What else would you be looking for? If your wife doesnt want your dick then why would anyone else? This Queen does not eat crumbs off another woman's table.
M'lady I applaud your response - without the clap

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/21/2021 6:28 pm:
Yeah speaking of the clap... I hope banana is double bagging it if he is trolling for a bunch of hook ups behind his wifes back...

DiscreteSlowRide 54M
384 posts
7/21/2021 6:45 pm

    Quoting tooshay_turtle:
    I go away for just a short time and noting changes. To the poster, these results have come up over and over and repeat all the time. The men seem to never get that and still insist that if they shove their dick at a woman she will want it.

    To the idiot 71 year old that really believes a woman will choose him based on his 'loads of cum' in her, give me a fucking break dude. That is really stupid if you think a woman will not look at your age, your attitude, and your face let alone your attitude if you just tell her you have loads of cum to put in her. That has to be the stupidest thing I have seen in a long time.

    To answer this even though I am a guy I know that women don't really want the package first. The blogs in here over and over repeat say hello first, wait till I ask, or tell us just how stupid it is to think with your dick. I get it and I also get that this is not a 'sex site'. I have yet to just log in and get some sex.
I have no doubt this is not the first post about dick pics. It sure as hell will not be the last time you see this.
I knew what the results would be, I knew most women would say about how they don't want men to lead with their dicks when they send a first email etc...

What I did not expect is for men to be so fucking defiant about insisting on sending their D picks anyway regardless of what most women tell them.


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
7/22/2021 7:38 am

While I know this was a poll asking for 'Women's' opinion, since a few men have also voiced their opinions, I thought I would chime in.

I can understand that many women do NOT wish the first thing they see about a potential prospect is their 'member', but perhaps something more sophisticated in terms of an introductory pic. Truthfully, I am of the same opinion when it comes to women's genitalia. Not the first thing I want to see.

We are all 'fishing' for something on/from this site, and it's not the 'bait', but the 'catch' that is what's really important or at issue.

We are all here for the same/different reasons, yet our goal is mostly the same, albeit slightly different. Some are here merely for sex. IN/OUT and on to the next one. Some need a bit more than a Wham Bam, Thank-you Ma'am. I fall into the second category. I cannot simply engage with someone who I otherwise would not have be friends or at least have some areas of commonality or mutual interest had we not met under these circumstances. But perhaps that's just me. Substance/quality over form.

Some are on here seeking more than just a roll in the hay. Some are seeking some form of relationship, perhaps even more. I have been on this site over 15 years, and while I don't profess to have seen it all, I have seen quite a bit.

So I've seen and been to Meet & Greets, Munches, and various other social get- togethers to meet and engage with local members. I've also seen those who have hooked up once and now hate each other. I've also witnessed others who dated and evolved into long term relationships and a few even married/wed. Still others use it as a social networking site of like minded individuals who occasionally socialize together. So I don't feel that that site is ONLY a 'Sex' site, but a site that offers you a 'choice' or fills a need of that which YOU seek. It is NOT a one dimensional site.

So getting back to the initial question...... I myself choose NOT you have a dick pic in my profile especially as my main profile pic. I do it for several reasons. First and foremost, I CHOOSE to differentiate myself from those that do. Like I said earlier, we all use different bait to catch a fish. The important thing is to catch one, but I don't want to catch just any fish. I want the 'best' fish possible for me.


Valkoinen_Leski 56F  
70 posts
7/22/2021 2:40 pm

It isn't about being disgusted. it is about too much information. It is about not being surprised by anything you do because your first go to was to show me your dick.

Women like a bit of mystery too. Part of getting to the end game results is the chase. So that trophy we are waiting to see is shown to us like we are supposed to care at that point. In reality, you just look like a child saying "Lookit my peepee!"

The real women on this site love sex too. It is why we are here. We also like a little fun. Part of that fun could be the very act of surprise at the joy they find in the meat in their meet's pants.

Sex is a lot better when the slightest efforts are put into the chase.


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
7/23/2021 4:43 am

    Quoting Valkoinen_Leski:
    It isn't about being disgusted. it is about too much information. It is about not being surprised by anything you do because your first go to was to show me your dick.

    Women like a bit of mystery too. Part of getting to the end game results is the chase. So that trophy we are waiting to see is shown to us like we are supposed to care at that point. In reality, you just look like a child saying "Lookit my peepee!"

    The real women on this site love sex too. It is why we are here. We also like a little fun. Part of that fun could be the very act of surprise at the joy they find in the meat in their meet's pants.

    Sex is a lot better when the slightest efforts are put into the chase.
I concur with your comment/points, VL. Like a traditional Fox Hunt. It's the thrill of the chase.


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
7/23/2021 7:43 am

    Quoting Valkoinen_Leski:
    It isn't about being disgusted. it is about too much information. It is about not being surprised by anything you do because your first go to was to show me your dick.

    Women like a bit of mystery too. Part of getting to the end game results is the chase. So that trophy we are waiting to see is shown to us like we are supposed to care at that point. In reality, you just look like a child saying "Lookit my peepee!"

    The real women on this site love sex too. It is why we are here. We also like a little fun. Part of that fun could be the very act of surprise at the joy they find in the meat in their meet's pants.

    Sex is a lot better when the slightest efforts are put into the chase.
SPOT ON!!


BBWjawn 39F

7/27/2021 1:33 pm

i love them


DiscreteSlowRide 54M
384 posts
8/1/2021 4:41 pm

    Quoting  :

Exactly!!!


Unxpctdpirate 56F  
69 posts
8/19/2021 7:04 pm

quick comment on your reply to Ms.Lala -
posing with a fish pic = he's all about himself and his hobbies and interests



C.P.A


agelesssexylegs 80F
1145 posts
9/12/2021 2:13 am

Well most see it as their most desirable asset,god what must his face or body look like,as most men think and talk through that kind of head anyway,i prefer imagination and tease rather than the actual thing,and,if you must show it,please manscape it but never send in initial message


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