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Blogs > rm_impish_pixie > Mischievous Musing's

Happy Un-Anniversary....  

rm_impish_pixie 61F
1578 posts
4/16/2008 7:58 pm

Last Read:
3/31/2009 8:23 pm
Happy Un-Anniversary....
So...had I remained married, today would have been my 25th Wedding Anniversary. Instead it was my 5th year of freedom.

It's been kinda strange. Like I should somehow acknowledge it...and I've wondered a time or two throughout this day...did he think about it too?

Weird.

I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn
rm_DaphneR 65F
8019 posts
4/16/2008 10:09 pm

 Heh, I sorta feel like I should acknowledge my anniversary sometimes too.
Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


rm_impish_pixie replies on 4/17/2008 5:04 pm:
LMAO...are you getting close to being able to do something about that?

sidechickneeded 58M
13965 posts
4/16/2008 11:24 pm

 he thought of you most of day, thinking what a fool he had been........
“I am not a teacher, but an awakener”
Robert Frost


rm_impish_pixie replies on 4/17/2008 5:07 pm:
I don't know why I wondered that...I suppose it's just the history. I do wish him happiness. It was a strange day.

I miss you Rob...thanks for coming by...I'll use ebullient again if it'll bring you back..

digdug41 56M

4/17/2008 10:02 am

 he probably did pix but hey like you said your free now so enjoy it.
roaming the cyber streets of blogland


rm_impish_pixie replies on 4/17/2008 5:08 pm:
ah Diggy Man...I'm enjoying every single minute.

rm__Safira 61F
11258 posts
4/19/2008 4:48 pm

 SIS ~ I'm in on the Pot Roast "Roast!" I'll bring you your "chickie beer," while EEK and I get soused on vino and we "douse the grouse away!" (Remember, we'll need sage! ) *love you* /
This is my blog - [blog _Safira]. There are many like it, but this one is mine.

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rm_impish_pixie replies on 4/20/2008 4:30 pm:
I have the sage. We never did get around to our effigy burning did we? LOL

leather63 60M
816 posts
4/20/2008 3:10 pm

 hi sorry im a few day s late but he was thinking about it and thinking about what he has lost!!! As they say his loss is your gain!


rm_impish_pixie replies on 4/20/2008 4:31 pm:
Oh don't worry about being "late"...lol...anyone who knows me knows I'm always a lil on the late side so I would be the last to judge. giggle.

Thanks for your kind words, and thanks for stopping by. Don't be a stranger.

piercednshavedmn 60M
4575 posts
4/21/2008 9:32 am

 I remember my anniversaries the same way I remember tax day.

XX

MJ


rm_impish_pixie replies on 4/29/2008 5:25 pm:
lol....but why? Do you dread them too?

rm_goddess1946 113F
Ask me for a photo
13513 posts
4/25/2008 6:23 pm

 Yet one more thing to celebrate on Saturday Nite!
Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you... {=}


rm_impish_pixie replies on 4/29/2008 5:26 pm:
Celebration was awesome...yes?

twoforone100 53M/49F  
1169 posts
8/8/2008 6:24 pm

 You know it is funny sometimes.... Patrick speaking... My x and I are great friends... We hang out from time to time... We chat and we talk a lot more than a lot of people I sometimes "call" friends... Married in the blizzard of 96..it actually got postponed 6 days...some would call that a sign... split in 98..... as far as break ups go it was pretty easy.... there is only one thing we would have fought over...Dags...He always chose her so I let him go.. I got to see him a lot... when she would travel for work or play she would drop him off... In fact he was with me three days after marley died for a month... he was coming already... i just wish the boys could have seen each other again.... Dags just past in sept... the same day JC came home... happy and sad all at the same time...the circle of life... While in durka durka land she emailed if i wanted to buy some stones... those stones are now on pattie's hand... black diamonds.. ( hey it fits black dog, black diamonds) She was the only person i called and told we were getting married before hand.. She was at our reception..... That was a sight.. Old friends, swing friends, family, and the x wife all at the reception.... It was funny as some figured out who she was....most had not seen her in 10 years.......as we were shooting off the fireworks... she was stringing them together... former bomb techs are like that... and seeing her with that blow torch lighting them up was quite a sight......I would not have it any other way....we just never should have gotten married...I trust her with my life.. there are very few people I ever say that about....very few...the story about my only "bar fight" is a classic.....I use the term light as i did not even move but she did... and the classic line...as she had the guy by the throat on the floor ready to strike.... "I don't want to hurt you girl" she said " you won't" ... There are few people who I truly call friend... she is one of them....I do think about what ifs all the time... we are happy where we are...It is sometimes the best thing...........in the end our personalities are too close to each others....makes for great friends... lousy lovers............ two type A;s together just does not work..... Wow that was a long post... Glad you are free....... love to maggie ... oh and the funny thing is we would be burning it together...and laughing soooooooooo hard Patrick


rm_impish_pixie replies on 8/18/2008 6:53 pm:
Patrick, there are times when I wish my ex and I could have that type of relationship, but it's just not in the cards. For some reason he cannot seem to "just let it go". Perhaps it is his conscience, but I have forgiven him and told him more than once that I hold no bitterness, no anger, no saddness...only an acceptance of what was.

Maggie and I thank you for your thoughts and love, perhaps there's a "Dag" out there for me when my time for healing comes. Peace...

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