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Posted:Apr 14, 2012 7:23 am
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This is the place where you can private message me ,do drop any comments on my blogs or for standard members to contact me .
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Relationships ~ Being Happy In One
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Posted:Feb 5, 2011 8:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2021 2:16 am
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Relationship is very tricky. Tensions build up over time and one day both the partners cannot bear the stress of the relationship and give it up. After that they keep thinking about why that happened. Why not secure the relationship right from the beginning. Every relationship will have pluses and minuses. Our objective should be to build the pluses. The minuses will then become insignificant. What are the factors that may positively influence a relationship? Let us write them down.
Maintain awareness of feelings of each other.
If you are trying to be perfect, do not do that. That causes stresses. Accept that both of you are imperfect.
Talking about breakup up in heat of the moment is wrong. One should rather avoid talking about breaking up altogether. Avoid discussing about any break up your friends have. Do not focus on any negative. Focus on positives.
Be compassionate towards each other. Take care of the mood swings and do not create tension over small things. Try to ease the atmosphere. Show care towards other person.
Lying about anything should be absolute no. Do not even try to hide things. Be totally open about everything. Never develop any trust deficit.
If something was better for you in the past and is not so in the present, avoid saying so.
Always end the day on a happy note. Do not let any misunderstanding open at the end of the day. Clear up all the mess and apologize if needed.
Know all about your partner’s likes and dislikes. If there is a conflict between what you like and what your partner likes, discuss that openly. Surrender if required. Ego in small matters never helped any one. You will feel better if you give happiness to your partner.
Go by your good instinct. Avoid thinking and dwelling upon negatives. Think of the world as a good place and your relationship as a great one.
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Relationships ~ Trust
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Posted:Jan 28, 2011 9:49 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2011 9:57 pm
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This is a common problem. All of us are looking for trustworthy partners but many of us get into relationships where our partner cheats us. How to know if your partner is trustworthy?
What I am saying here may sound very simple but is also very useful. Please observe your partner in all his/her transactions, discussions and work with others. If he/she behaves in a deceitful manner or does not care about small lies then be careful. A person’s character remains the same. A person who is today behaving differently with you than he/she behaves with others can one day behave the same with you also. Her/his essential and true character will surely reveal one day. Better not wait for that day. Break up as soon as possible rather than getting cheated in future.
Trust means to believe. I trust you, means I have no doubt in my mind about your honesty, integrity and credibility. No relationship can survive without trust. How to develop and keep the trust in a relationship forever, because as soon as the trust breaks, the relationship breaks. Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built. If you don’t trust a person, howsoever you may love him/her, your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust in him/her.
Let us examine this little more. To begin with, every relationship begins with trust in each other. Without the initial trust, the relationship will not move in the beginning itself. In the beginning, one believes without much proof about the others character. It is love and some assessment of how trustworthy the person is. As the relationship grows, fissures start forming because of doubts about whether the other person can be trusted? Was he/she trustworthy from the beginning or was I fooled? Or is he/she changing now? This kind of doubtful thinking causes tremendous strain in a relationship and with the breaking of trust, the relationship breaks.
How do you manage to build the trust in the earlier period is most important. The beginning can be very dangerous. What may arouse suspicion should be avoided at all the costs. If you have a suspicious partner, you need to be more careful. Small things such as if you are going out, inform where you are going and to meet whom? If there is a change in your mood, talk to your partner and talk about the reasons. If you are facing career problems, rather than hiding them, tell about them to your partner and seek support. Many a times, you will behave differently when you face career issues and that may make your partner think about all types of possibilities. Be open about everything. Your words and body language should be synchronous at all the times. Inform about everything and if not fully possible assure your partner that things are going differently and you are under pressure. Be open. Seek trust and you will get it.
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Relationships ~ Commitment
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Posted:Jan 28, 2011 9:34 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2012 5:27 am
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Relationship Every relationship has its pluses and minuses. For a strong relationship that satisfies both the partners, you have to consider yourself, your partner and the character of the relationship. If you manage to get into a relationship with the right person, you can have a long trouble-free journey.
How important is commitment in relationships? Well of course it differs from person to person. For some commitment phobics being committed in a relationship would mean the sabotage of personal freedom, lack of independence and space, bidding goodbye to friends and the exciting world of dating. However, it is only the ones who are in for serious relationships who understand the real importance of commitment in a relationship.
Commitment is a silent promise to be there forever and through all odds. It is the lifeline of your relationship. The stronger the commitment, the stronger the relationship. It is a stage when all the Is in the relationship are replaced with we’s. It is the stage when all the traces of doubt and distrust are wiped out. It is the time when you are acknowledged as a part of your partner’s life. It also is a way to show how much you care about them. The most common reasons why people are commitment phobic are inability to stay faithful, bad past experiences, not wanting to settle down, they don’t love the person enough, etc. Relationships without commitment is like food without salt. It satisfies your hunger, but is tasteless. A relationship without commitment seems okay for a while. But, at some point in time it feels pointless and loses the zest and excitement that it once had. If you don’t have a future with the person you are seeing, you definitely don’t have a present as well. The feeling of having someone whom you could call your own, fuss over or take for granted to be with you forever is truly priceless. In the absence of this, life can indeed get very lonely.
It does not mean that you get committed to almost anyone. Commitment is a matter of time. Trust takes time to build. All relationships are not always meant to be. However, if you always keep the door of your heart closed you will never be able to experience the joys of falling in love. Take your time to get to know a person. But when you finally do, don’t be afraid to fall in love. Don’t sit back and adjudicate every second person who comes your way. Give them a chance. Love is a beautiful feeling and unless you promise to give it your all, it is not possible to truly experience it.
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A Step You Cant Take Back
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Posted:Oct 9, 2014 8:13 am
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2016 3:16 pm
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So you find yourself at this subway With your world in a bag by your side And all at once it seemed like a good way You realize it's the end of the line For what it's worth
Here comes the train upon the track And there goes the pain, it cuts to black Are you ready for the last act? To take a step you can't take back?
Taken all the punches you could take Took 'em all right on the chest Now the camel's back is breaking Again, again For what it's worth
Here comes the train upon the track And there goes the pain, it cuts to black Are you ready for the last act? To take a step you can't take back?
Did she love you? Did she take you down? Was she on her knees when she kissed your crown? Tell me what you found
Here comes the rain, so hold your hat And don't pray to God, 'cause He won't talk back Are you ready for the last act? To take a step you can't take back, back, back? You can't take back, back, back.
So you find yourself at this subway With your world in a bag by your side
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Lost Stars
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Posted:Oct 9, 2014 8:03 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 10:50 am
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Please don't see Just a boy caught up in dreams and fantasies Please see me Reaching out for someone I can't see
Take my hand, let's see where we wake up tomorrow Best laid plans sometimes are just a one night stand I'll be damned, Cupid's demanding back his arrow So let's get drunk on our tears
And God, tell us the reason youth is wasted on the young It's hunting season and the lambs are on the run Searching for meaning But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?
Who are we? Just a speck of dust within the galaxy? Woe is me If we're not careful turns into reality
But don't you dare let our best memories bring you sorrow Yesterday I saw a lion kiss a deer Turn the page, maybe we'll find a brand new ending Where we're dancing in our tears
And God, tell us the reason youth is wasted on the young It's hunting season and the lambs are on the run We're searching for meaning But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?
and I thought I saw you out there crying and I thought I heard you call my name and I thought I heard you out there crying But just the same
And God, give us the reason youth is wasted on the young It's hunting season and the lambs are on the run searching for meaning But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?
And I thought I saw you out there crying And I thought I heard you call my name And I thought I heard you out there crying But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark? Are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?
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Love Someone
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Posted:Jul 17, 2014 6:30 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2014 6:43 am
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Love is a funny thing Whenever I give it, it comes back to me And it's wonderful to be giving with my whole heart as my heart receives Your love,ain't it nice Tonight we've got each other And I am right beside you More than just a partner or a lover I'm your friend
When you love someone Your heart beat beats so loud When you love someone Your feet can't feel the ground
shining stars all seem to congregate around your face When you love someone It comes back to you
In love; is a funny thing It's making my blood flow with energy And it's life, an awaken dream It's what I've been wishing for, it's happening
It's right on time ain't it nice this life, we've got each other And I am right beside you More than just a partner or a lover I'm your friend
When you love someone Your heart beat beats so loud When you love someone Your feet can't feel the ground
shining stars all seem to congregate around your face When you love someone,When you love someone
We're gonna give ourselves to love tonight Lifting up to touch the starlight That we will say for every second we suspend together You and I will,You and I will,You and I will
When you love someone Your heart beat beats so loud When you love someone Your feet can't feel the ground
shining stars all seem to congregate around your face When you love someone It comes back to you
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As I Lay Me Down
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Posted:Mar 31, 2014 5:40 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 10:50 am
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It felt like springtime on this February morning In the courtyard birds were singing your praise I'm still recalling things you said to make me feel alright I carried them with me today, Now
As I lay me down to sleep This I pray That you will hold me dear Though I'm far away I'll whisper your name into the sky And I will wake up happy
I wonder why I feel so high Though I am not above the sorrow Heavy hearted Till you call my name And it sounds like church bells Or the whistle of a train On a summer evening I'll run to meet you Barefoot barely breathing
It's not too near for me Like a flower I need the rain Though it's not clear to me Every season has its change And I will see you When the sun comes out again
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How Long Will I Love You
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Posted:Mar 26, 2014 6:32 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2016 11:30 am
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How long will I love you As long as stars are above you And longer if I can
How long will I need you As long as the seasons need you Follow their plan
How long will I be with you As long as the sea is bound to Our ship on the sound
How long will I want you As long as you want me to And longer by far
How long will I hold you As long as your father told you As long as you can
How long will I give to you As long as I live through you For ever long you stay
How long will I love you As long as stars are above you And longer if I may
"We are traveling through time together, Every day of our lives, All we can do is do our best ,To relish this remarkable ride together ."
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The Wrong Direction
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Posted:Sep 20, 2013 11:50 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 10:50 am
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When I was a , the things I did were hidden under the grid Young and naive, I never believed that love could be so well hid With regret I'm willing to bet, and say the older you get It gets harder to forgive and harder to forget It gets under your shirt like a dagger at work The first cut is the deepest but the rest still flipping hurt You build your heart of plastic Get cynical and sarcastic And end up in the corner on your own
'Cos I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection I thought I was close but under further inspection It seems I've been running in the wrong direction
So what's the point in getting your hopes up When all you're ever getting is choked up When you're coked up And can't remember the reason why you broke up You call her in the morning When you're coming down and falling Like an old man on the side of the road 'Cos when you're apart you don't want to mingle When you're together you want to be single Ever the chase to taste the kiss of bliss That made your heart tingle How much greener the grass is With those rose tinted glasses But the butterflies they flutter by and leave us on our arses
'Cos I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection I thought I was close but under further inspection It seems I've been running in the wrong direction There's fish in the sea for me to make a selection I'd jump in if it wasn't for my ear infection 'Cos all I want to do is try to make a connection It seems I've been running in the wrong direction
Oh, I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection I thought I was close but under further inspection It seems I've been running in the wrong direction I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection I thought I was close but under further inspection It seems I've been running in the wrong direction, ohh It seems like I'm running in the wrong direction, ohh Seems like I'm running in the wrong direction, ohh Well, it seems I've been running in the wrong direction, oh no Seems I've been running in the wrong direction, oh
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Let Her Go
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Posted:Sep 20, 2013 11:31 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 10:50 am
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Well you only need the light when its burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low Only hate the road when you're missing home Only know you love her when you let her go And you let her go
Staring at the bottom of your glass Hoping one day you'll make a dream last But dreams come slow and they go so fast
You see her when you close your eyes Maybe one day you'll understand why Everything you touch surely dies
But you only need the light when its burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low Only hate the road when you're missing home Only know you love her when you let her go
Staring at the ceiling in the dark Same old empty feeling in your heart Cos love comes slow and it goes so fast
Well you see her when you fall asleep But never to touch and never to keep Cos you loved her too much and you dived too deep
Well you only need the light when its burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low Only hate the road when you're missing home Only know you love her when you let her go And you let her go And you let her go Well you let her go
Cos you only need the light when its burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low Only hate the road when you're missing home Only know you love her when you let her go
Cos you only need the light when its burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low Only hate the road when you're missing home Only know you love her when you let her go And you let her go
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Because Of You
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Posted:Jul 21, 2013 8:32 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2013 7:10 am
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I will not make the same mistakes that you did I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery I will not break the way you did, You fell so hard I've learned the hard way To never let it get that far Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid! I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes I'm forced to fake A smile, a laugh everyday of my life My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with
I watched you die I heard you cry every night in your sleep I was so young You should have known better than to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain And now I cry in the middle of the night For the same damn thing Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in Because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty Because of you I am afraid Because of you
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Just Give Me A Reason
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Posted:Mar 31, 2013 7:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2013 8:29 pm
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Right from the start You were a thief You stole my heart And I your willing victim I let you see the parts of me That weren't all that pretty And with every touch you fixed them Now you've been talking in your sleep Things you never say to me Tell me that you've had enough Of our love, our love
Just give me a reason Just a little bit's enough Just a second we're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again It's in the stars It's been written in the scars on our hearts We're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again
I'm sorry I don't understand Where all of this is coming from I thought that we were fine Oh we had everything Your head is running wild again My dear we still have everythin' And it's all in your mind Yeah but this is happenin' You've been havin' real bad dreams You used to lie so close to me There's nothing more than empty sheets Between our love, our love Oh our love, our love
Just give me a reason Just a little bit's enough Just a second we're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again I never stopped You're still written in the scars on my heart You're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again
Oh tear ducts and rust I'll fix it for us We're collecting dust But our love's enough You're holding it in You're pouring a drink No nothing is as bad as it seems We'll come clean
Just give me a reason Just a little bit's enough Just a second we're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again It's in the stars It's been written in the scars on our hearts That we're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again
Just give me a reason Just a little bit's enough Just a second we're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again It's in the stars It's been written in the scars on our hearts That we're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again Oh, we can learn to love again Oh, we can learn to love again Oh oh, that we're not broken just bent And we can learn to love again.
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