For A Hot Sex Life, Make Her Feel Smokin'!
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Posted:Nov 15, 2014 7:55 am
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2020 7:42 pm
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For many women, if they don’t feel good about themselves, they’re not going to be very horny or interested in sex at all. In fact, if her mind is on her negative body perception, you will probably find your girl a bit overly sensitive about contact with her body or areas that she doesn’t feel too great about. You may see her as this white hot vixen with a kickin’ body, but if she doesn’t see herself that way then you will struggle to change her mind right there and then. The best way to do it is discretely and to build it up.
Unconditionally Gorgeous :::
Regularly tell her how sexy she is, this doesn’t mean only within a bedroom scenario where you’re trying to get her in the mood. She should hear complements like this from you regularly whether you’ve just met her after she’s hit the gym donning a sweat-soaked tracksuit and hair pulled back into an untidy, greasy bunch or you’re out collecting some shopping. Let her know how beautiful she is or how she always smells amazing, making sure that it comes from the heart of course! By telling her these things all the time, it lets her know you’re sincere and not just trying to butter her up when in bed.
No Need To Stealth Perv:::
Allow her to catch you sneaking a peek in at her bum as she’s getting changed or give her a longing stare from across the room of the family party you’re attending. Stroking her hair and face is extremely affectionate and will make her feel loved and wanted. Gentle stroking of the places she doesn’t like about herself will also show that you find every bit of her attractive, even those that she doesn’t.
You Decide:::
Head out to a lingerie shop together and purchase an outfit or underwear that you think would look good on her. Assure her that you know she’s going to look smokin’ and when she does adorn your choice of kinky garments, leap on her and let all your animalistic urges go. If she sees how much the sight of her in something she doesn’t necessarily consider very flattering turns you on, she’s going to feel fantastic!
So, bottom line is, make her feel great and you will be rewarded with a superb sex life and a more self-assured, happy lady!
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Sex Mistakes Guys Make
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Posted:Nov 6, 2014 9:09 am
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2020 7:42 pm
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Every guy doubts their abilities to please their partner between the sheets at some point, but could you actually be performing a little less than satisfactory in their eyes? What are the big mistakes so many people make and how do you avoid them?
In Her Own Time::
Now don’t get us wrong guys, we know you that it really gets you off knowing that you’ve made your lady reach the big ‘o’, but don’t place all your pride on it. If your gal doesn’t come, don’t get yourself down, women’s orgasms don’t come as easily as a man’s. It’s not that she doesn’t find you attractive or isn’t being extremely pleasured by you, women’s orgasms or lack thereof can be greatly affected by many factors and are as psychological as they are physical, if not more. The biggest error you can do is question her. The likes of “are you gonna come?” or “why haven’t you come yet?” are extremely off-putting and this extra pressure will most likely cause her to lose her focus and reduce the chances of coming even more-so. Ask her things like “do you like that?” or “what do you want me to do to you?” This ensures good communication between the two of you and you know how to best go about getting her to her peak.
Dirty Decibels::
Be aware of the noise-pollution you’re sending out during sex. In the throes of passion you can lose yourself perhaps a bit too much, particularly when it comes to your audio. Letting slip an ex’s name or calling out for that Babe-Station girl that you have your tea-break wank over is never gonna go down well. It could be an innocent mistake not long after a break-up with being so used to calling out another woman’s name perhaps, but it’s a fatal one nonetheless! Stick to simple “Yeah baby”s and moans and groans that can’t be misconstrued should you think there’s any chance of letting slip something that you would’ve rather have kept to yourself.
Porn-About As Real As Father Christmas::
Measuring your sex life up against a porno is never a good thing as porn isn’t reality, yet so many men do it! These explicit movies are edited to the death before they ever reach the top shelf of a DVD store or those xxx-websites that are so commonplace nowadays. You don’t see the parts where the guys take viagra to keep them hard, the girls need to take a break due to soreness after too much anal sex or the cuts where something basically just doesn’t go to plan. There’s nothing wrong with trying a bit of rough sex, porn maneuvers or derogatory language with your girl now and again, with her full consent of course. However, unless she is really into this sort of thing, it would be impossible to maintain a sex-life at this level as porn is not real sex. Carry it on for too long you run the risk of making her feel used, resentment toward you or even injure her. Always communicate with her what you both want, what she’s comfortable with and stop if she’s not.
So fellas, if you think you could be making any of these easy mistakes, take a step back and ask yourself what you could do straighten them out and enjoy a fantastic and fulfilling sex life, for both of you.
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Sex Dreams Deciphered
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Posted:Nov 4, 2014 6:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 9:44 pm
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Do you find yourself having a recurring dream where you're getting it on or perhaps you dreamt a dream where you'd been sexually involved with someone you'd never even think of looking at in that way and want to get to the bottom of it. We've got a few sexual dreams deciphered for you!
Sex with an ex ::
Arggh! There's you thinking that you'd got away from them but just like Freddie Kruger they somehow find you whilst you're in the land of nod. Sleeping with an ex can signify that you may be having some fears about a new relationship or are having some of the same types of feelings that you felt for the ex. Your sub-concious could be waving you a little red flag here if you are in another relationship.
Sex with a celebrity ::
Sex dreams are rarely actually about the deed itself, so whilst you might really fancy the star that you've been getting steamy with during your 40 winks, chances are it has some other meaning. By dreaming of sex with someone famous you could be projecting your desire for fame, wealth or success.
Sex with a stranger::
Sometimes it can be hard to recall details of a dream but if no matter how you try you can't actually remember a face, it may be because there wasn't one. It was anonymous, a stranger. This could be your urge to go out and seek adventure, trying things you've never tried, this doesn't necessarily mean people (or maybe it does!).
Next time you have a tryst whilst on a higher level of consciousness, don't just put it down to you being a bit horny. Whilst this could be the explanation, there may be more to it.
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Escaping A Swinger Party If It Gets A Little Uncomfortable
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Posted:Nov 3, 2014 6:31 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2020 11:31 am
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So you’ve been handed a golden ticket into someone’s home for a swinger party. Fantastic! However, what happens in the case that you end up feeling uncomfortable rather than having an unforgettably amazing time? The people there give you the shivers or perhaps it’s simply not cracked up to what you thought it’d be and you want to get out of there one way or another. OK you need an escape route, read on.
Be Honest :
There’s the extremely obvious...tell the host that you’re not getting into the party and are going to head off. You could go off on a slight tangent from the truth and tell them you’re not feeling too well but then, what if they’re otherwise occupied in sexual entanglement? A great host wouldn’t be caught up for too long and would be free soon enough but they also want to have fun after all.
Pull-A-Sicky :
So, in the event of your host being otherwise taken and you feel a little rude literally just walking out the front door in front of everyone, what can you do? There’s the old pull-a-sicky, you’ll most likely have had enough practice with this back in school. Tell anyone that you don’t want to play with that your belly’s hurting a bit and not to go near your back-door as you had a rather lively chili-con-carne earlier. If this doesn’t deter them, pull out the big-guns of your finest acting skills. Grab your stomach, muttering something along the lines of ‘Uh-oh it’s coming’ and run like a headless chicken to the nearest bathroom. Upon leaving the toilet, should someone still fancy a go with you after all that, give them all the gory details. ‘Watch yourself, it was coming out of both ends just before’ should do it. Chances are following this, there will be no questions asked and the front door will be opened rather swiftly for you.
Oscar-Worthy Performance :
If you’re wise, you will have your phone and Oscar-winning acting skills handy. Make sure it’s on complete silent mode as you’re going to look a bit of a clown having a fictitious conversation when the phone actually starts going off. Don’t be over the top, you don’t even need to say much, in fact usually the less you say the more believable it’s gonna be. So get your slightly worried face on and simply mention an emergency, they won’t ask questions.
Go,Go,Go! :::
Then there’s the stealth option, creep your way to escape if you’re really that weirded out. Excuse yourself to the bathroom but look for a way out along the way, bedroom window, bathroom window, back door etc. Make sure you haven’t forgotten anything along the way because you’re really gonna look odd trying to climb back through a window or knocking on the front door when no-one had even realised you’d left.
So escaping a less than desirable party is much like how you may have gotten out of school in the past, act your way out or sneak out!
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SWINGING LIFESTYLE WITH THE BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
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Posted:Nov 3, 2014 3:03 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 9:44 pm
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Days passed, just a while sat back and cherished the memories of the Swingers Friends.
Everyone opens the Gay Hookup Zone account but with a hope of trying new thing in the sex life which definitely drives down and makes a compassionate with the adorable feelings which changes the life and makes feelings of life very smooth , compatible and adaptable.
Initaially, when swinging all chemicals of adrenaline is high thinking what will go wrong or rite, Fight may or may not happen before swinging or after swing with the loved ones but when spoken with loved ones there again things start smooth where sharing of individual sex experience with different partner or same (Bi act) this thought exchange ongoing process is worth a million which is undefinied or unexpressed.
Not born with the same blood, don’t know from childhood nor studied together nor working together nor friends with the boundary so above all these we get connected with the beautiful true ppl and become friends where there is no sky limit for Anything and Everything FROM A-Z.
Hats OFF to all beautiful hearts they join there hands irrespective of , parents, family managing with some bahanas (Reasons) and still thinking what if family or friends or relatives gets to know. Of above all, this is worth for a true fun filled enjoyment for a life.
So, this low or high Chemistry of life between Loved ones with their love, think about the journey which is a never ending feel.
JUST SAY LOVE YOU TO THE LOVED ONES MAKING LIFE REALISTIC.
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Sex From A Porn Star's Point Of View
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Posted:Nov 2, 2014 9:11 am
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2018 7:11 am
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Porn is everywhere, there’s no getting away from that and it will most likely always be around. A lot of people try to emulate their sex lives on what they’ve seen in these adult cinematic pieces but what they don’t see is the not-so-glamorous behind the scenes where the men need to top up on viagra to keep themselves going or where a star suffers from anal prolapse after too much anal (google image search it..don’t be eating anything whilst you do). Bottom line is what you see after the cuts and necessary edits have been made to the porn movies is not realistic. Porn stars are rather open about this and have given their two cents on sex based on their varied sexual experience.
More Than A Genital Connection :
Adam Glasser a.k.a. Seymore Butts has divulged his opinion to the foundations of an enviably fantastic sex life as communicating what you want with your partner/s and listening to what they want also. Even sexy starlet Lisa-Ann says the best sex she ever had was with someone she connected with, this is all about communication and feeling comfortable with someone. Without that it’s merely physical but there’s the difference between mediocre and red-hot sex, the psychological aspect.
Porn Is Plastic Sex :
James Deen opened up even further about the less than real world of porn with brutal honesty that the awkward positions, long-haul sex sessions and looking fantastic during sex. (If you look not a hair out of place during sex then you’re doing it wrong!) Extremely successful Jessica Drake has created her own DVD series educating every day people on fantastic sex. During the series she gives some brilliant and advice like switching between foreplay and intercourse along keeping your clothes on for sex.
Scrub Up :
Tasha Reign has a real bug-bear, uncleanliness! According to her, you don’t need to be absolutely immaculate but unsightly body hair should be removed or trimmed, all areas of the body should be thoroughly washed and for her smell is extremely important so don’t wear anything overwhelming that’s gonna have them choking as they try to get close to you but something demure that gives off a more demure but sensuous scent.
So there you have it, this advice all sounds fairly standard because porn stars are also normal people and all say the same thing - porn is not an ideal view of sex, it’s just something to help fulfill an urge now and again but never base your sex life on it.
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What Secretly Makes Them Horny
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Posted:Nov 2, 2014 9:10 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 9:44 pm
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What are the most oh-so simple practices when it comes to turning on the opposite sex that may not receive as much attention as the more mainstream libido-boosting facts?
On Your Bike
Elevate their heart rate and get their blood and endorphins pumping to hook them on you. It’s been scientifically proven that following a feeling of possible danger and the euphoria of an adrenaline rush, attraction levels between people will rise. This is why action-packed dates like a trip to a theme park or day of go-karting are fantastic ideas for dates! You can get to know them more afterwards as you laugh about the antics that day over a refreshing drink! So get your skates on, quite literally but if gliding around a roller-rink isn’t your thing perhaps just stick to the two wheels and go tandem biking. The possibilities for a thrill-filled date which seals a bond of some serious mutual attraction are endless.
Go Au Natural
When you smell your pits after a hard grafting session in the gym, do you inhale deeply and let out a refreshed ‘ahhh’ or do you scrunch up your face in disgust and run for the nearest anti-perspirant? Well hold up, before you go raiding the nearest chemist’s of their deodorant stocks, try your own man-made odour out. Science dictate that the sweat and pheromones that escape with sweat are nature’s aftershave/perfume and the opposite sex are naturally attracted to them. We’re not quite sure how far this theory stretches though, for instance, we’re not really convinced that sitting close to some hottie in the sauna as you expel your manly liquids (mind out of the gutter) is going to have them wrenching their towel off and begging for you to take them there and then. Worth a shot though!
Flatter Their Flaws
Get this into your head and keep it there, make them feel fantastic about themselves before you try to make them feel fantastic. For most women sex is largely mental as opposed to physical, but this can also apply to men. So give them a little boost here and there, whether it’s about their sexual performance, cock size, hairstyle, figure or how pretty they look without make-up on and watch their confidence and both their and your enjoyment grow. Remember to enforce how they’re doing whilst in the midst of passion as well. If they don’t get enough feedback from you, they may start to doubt what they’re doing and change what they do or how they do it even if you may actually be enjoying it, so communication is important.
So, try these easy little things and maybe you’ll be beating them off with sticks!
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Rules of a swinging party
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Posted:Oct 31, 2014 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2018 7:10 am
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Be Polite
Here’s a no-brainer, introduce yourself to everyone, make small talk, take an interest in other people, standard stuff. This general rule extends further with swinging parties though, no matter how friendly you’re feeling an how hot you think someone is, ask before touching anyone! Ignore this and you’re likely to get yourself turfed out on your sorry butt. If someone gives you permission to have fun with them but then afterwards ask you to stop, you MUST stop. The previous admission is no longer valid and you must stop whatever you’re doing no matter how much you may be enjoying yourself. Failure to do so will most likely cause a big issue with the host and other attendees and you will find yourself banned from ever coming back. Also if someone says no it really means NO.
Reserve Your Place
There will most likely be invites sent out prior to a party, to which you much RSVP with enough notice so that the hosts can cater to the appropriate numbers and make the necessary preparations. Don’t expect to just turn up at the door and be invited in, if your name’s not on the list because you failed to RSVP then you’re unlikely to get in even if you were originally invited. Likewise if it’s a club that the event is being held at then you will usually need to make some prior contact to make sure that you will be able to get in on the night.
You’re Special
If you’re attending a soiree, it is NOT like any old party where to you can invite others along. Never hand out the address where the event will be taking place, this should always be kept secret. You’ve been privileged to have been selected as a guest to an event like this. The host hasn’t just sent out invites to any old person and so doesn’t want to see any old person other than those they wanted to be there in their party. Show your appreciation for the opportunity to be a part of your host’s fantastic do by bringing a gift. Whether that be some alcohol or something kinky, just like any average party it’s creator will greatly appreciate.
Dress Like You Mean It
If you were heading out to some glitzy star-studded club you’d dress the part wouldn’t you? This is no different, simply because it’s under someone’s roof, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t dress to really impress. Often swinger parties have some themed dress code, embrace it! Then there’s the even more obvious which you should be even more vigilant about, your personal hygiene. Think about it from the person who’s going to be having sex with you’s point of view, if there’s an overgrowth of unsightly hair or your foot’s fungal infection seems to be creeping it’s way up your entire body, chances are you’re not going to have many takers. So fresh breath, shaved, washed, groomed and primped to perfection, if you can ensure all these we’re sure you will have a fantastic time as you will have plenty of volunteers. You enjoy yourself, they do and chances are you will be invited back next time.
So, get all these things spot on and have an A star time now and over and over in the future.
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Orgasms for both the sexes
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Posted:Oct 31, 2014 7:51 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 9:44 pm
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There’s long been this reputation of myth and elusiveness surrounding the female orgasm but we can’t understand why. A lady’s climax simply takes a little more time and the right settings in comparison to a fella’s. So number one, time is precious and you can afford to dedicate enough of it to satisfy your girl. It’s well worth it. Here’s a few more tips for getting your girl off:
- Remember, gentle..she’s not a genie’s lamp so don’t rub her like you’re trying to get your three wishes out of her. Soft touching and caressing is what will most likely turn her on. Her clitoris is super sensitive and has more nerve endings packed into it than an entire penis so going too rough is only going to hurt or irritate her.
- Keep her warm, especially her feet!
- Make sure that there is no distractions around you and that there’s no chance of someone strolling in on your shenanigans. A lot of an orgasm for a lady is psychological, if she can’t relax, she can’t come.
- Ask her what she wants occasionally whilst pleasuring her, not all the time - though as you will put her off.
- If you’re doing something and she’s making all the right noises, keep going with what you’re doing! Aim to stay with it and change up whatever it is as minimally as possible be it the tempo, where you’re touching, what movement etc.
Men Also Need Some Orgasm TLC
Then there’s men, there’s a plethora of information on how to please a lady due to the whole notion that it’s difficult to do whilst blokes are a little left out when it comes to the how to’s of their orgasm as everyone just assumes it’s a no-brainer. Not necessarily. Not every man can just orgasm from a bit of attention from their hand and a dirty magazine, this may be the belief but men can also be like women and slightly more complex when it comes to orgasms. Here’s a few pointers:
- Men are visual creatures, they love food for their eyes so wear something sexy and do something sexy, be that a dance on top of them, make your boobs bounce or lick your fingers in a euphemistic manner.
- They also take pleasure in listening, so don’t be afraid to whisper what you’re going to do next to him in a sexy voice down his ear.
- When he’s inside you, tighten your PC muscles and release. Do this repeatedly and watch him blow like a volcano that’s been dormant for thousands of years and finally just blown it’s top. Practice exercising these muscles to have greater control and strength from them, you can find an article for doing this amongst the rest of our selection of articles.
- Tickle his balls before and during sex, they are so super-sensitive they can make all the difference between the big ‘O’ and just ‘oh’.
- Make him feel sexy, tell him so and initiate sex so that he feels desired. Men can also have their equivalent of ‘fat days’ and it can totally alter their ability to come.
We hope these tips help you out whether you’re taking a sexy lady to the brink for the first time or getting your man’s rocks off for the thousandth!
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