too hardcore???
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Posted:Aug 9, 2016 6:06 am
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2016 9:41 pm
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As a rule I usually dont write about other specific people, but I recently received interest from a couple looking to visit Bangkok, and the conversation was going smoothly until I answered some of their questions about experience.
I honestly described some of the types of encounters I had been involved in, but obviously without going into specific details, and explained some of the things that I found most appealing about meeting others.
The couple in question, or at least I presume the male of the couple, stated they are not interested in any kind of encounter that involved penetration. "That is too hardcore", and "you sound too hardcore".
Really? Wow! How judgemental can people be? ....with an emphasis on the MENTAL
Just because I have experienced some 'special nights out' with (sometimes multiple) other consenting individuals does not mean that it is something I do very regularly, nor does it mean that it is what I expect from every upcoming encounter.
Actually, some of the most enjoyable meets with other singles and couples have NOT involved penetration. There's something to be said about a flirtatious night out with a few beers and a sexy game of pool or bowling, or other similar everyday activities that have the possibility of leaving a lot to the imagination of all involved.
I know that people have different perspectives on subjects, but it is pretty disrespectful to impose their perspective on others and insist that everyone lives in their fanstastical fairly-land.
Since when was being 'easy-going', 'open-minded' and 'adventurous' synonyms for being 'hard-core'?
People - before you judge others, ask yourself why you are on this site, what you are looking for, and if are you being realistic? If you want to meet a single male to go and eat ice-cream with, you're probably on the wrong type of website.
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Are all couples equal?
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Posted:Apr 17, 2010 1:45 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2017 5:45 pm
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I've had some strange experiences with couples....
I have had some great times with couples who were completely open and honest with each other, with clear motives and both equally consenting.
On the other hand, I have had some unfortunate experiences where the male of a couple has "arranged" everything, on the premise of a "surprise" for the female. Needless to say, such experiences are quite offputting, and lead singles who play with couples to be a little suspicious when there is no interaction with both members of a couple.
One particularly bad experience I had was with a couple I met through this website, and I was described as being an "old friend, recently arrived in town, with no place to stay". Obviously, the female was not happy about this, and after having a huge argument on the way home, she got completely drunk, and only then became interested, but seemingly more with the intention of making the male feel jealous? Not a great feeling for me, I must say.
But even before it gets to that point, the question has to come up, WHO of the couple controls the website account? WHO of the couple selects the people that they are interested in? WHO determines the criteria of what they/he/she are/is looking for?
I have on occasion received notes of interest from the female of a couple, only to be told by the male that I am not what they/he/she was looking for.
In addition to those people, there are of course those "couples" where the only male interacts, and offers no interaction with the female whatsoever. I've dealt with enough of these people to realise that they are mostly single guys who use pictures of other people and can most likely be categorised as picture collectors.
Evidently, the only conclusion that I can draw is that there are some really great, honest and open couples out there, but for each great couple, there are maybe 10-15 that are either fake couples, or haven't completely figured out the rules of encouters.
Couples can be pretty hard on singles, often complaining that singles are only looking to get a "free night of sex without considering their motives...." Well, there are two sides to every story, and I hope that by reading this, some couples may consider that it's not always a one-way-street when it comes to not considering the motives of either party.
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How did it begin?
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Posted:Nov 6, 2005 10:17 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2017 5:48 pm
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I was recently asked the question about how and why I got into swinging/swapping scene, so after my response I decided that it would make a good topic for a blog here.
There was a night that one of my female friends and I had been out drinking when we accidentally met a group of our other friends at a nightclub. We went back to our friends apartment for an after-party.
Our friends ran down to the seven eleven down the road and left me and my friend at the apartment. Well, being left alone we took the chance to have a sexy quickie. The friends returned quicker than we imagined they would, and almost caught us. Anyway, they were suspicious of what we had been up to, and began to tease us about it. This led to a drunken truth/dare game.
Eventually I was dared to remove my friends panties in front of everyone, so I did. At first she was uncomfortable, but aided by the booze that soon passed. Then the other friends [3 girls and 1 guy] began undressing, and two of them began fucking while the others watched. My friend and I also watched, got horny and we fucked too.
Everyone slept, and when I woke I had a big hangover and a banging headache. I was being held by a pair of arms. I assumed that it was my friend who I was with, but it wasn't [she'd written a message on my phone and left earlier that morning]. It was the cute girl who actually owned the apartment whose arms were holding me.
As she became aware that I was awake, she began playing with my dick and told me that seeing me fuck my friend the previous night made her so horny, and that she wished she could have joined in. Obviously this led to things getting interesting, and soon we did fuck.
After a while reflecting on that night, I met the girl who owned the apartment a number of times, but found that her friends began to be visiting at the same time as our erotic encounters. We would fuck while her friends left the room, but eventually her friends returned and caught us in the middle of things. One girl dropped her trousers and was rubbing herself while she watched us. Watching her, watching us was a real turn on.
After those sessions, I began to contact couples since I'd realised how exciting it was to watch other people fucking.... and to be watched.
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