Sex Toys are for Whimps?
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Posted:Jan 8, 2009 11:09 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 2:4 pm
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Alright one of the silliest things I've heard is that the whole idea of sex toys is odd or weird. Well that's something I personally don't beleive in, but it's understandable at the same time people would feel like this. However feeling that sex toys are odd and beleive they don't belong are two different things.
Let's take a look at this from a guy's perspective. Say for example you're with your girlfriend (or boyfriend even), and they suddenly pull out a vibrator and ask you to fuck them with it. Well most guys which have limited sexual experience have probably never used anything save for their hand to get off and some porn. So the idea of using this new thing and screwing up can be intimidating.
Now let's go further what if the idea of using a toy just means you're not a Casanova? Well let's be honest guys and gals, nobody is perfect at anything, we all have our strengths and weaknesses, but what makes a person better at something is that they are willing to understand those weaknesses. So what if you use a toy to make your partner feel better. The main thing is you're making them feel better.
Lets look at a common "toy" that's used, porn. Think about it, couples often watch porn when get ready for sex or even during sex. We talk dirty to each other as well, are these external stimuli not the same as a sex toy essentially?
Listen, yeah I may be a virgin, but sexually I'm open and willing to try new things, even the use of sex toys on my future partners. So if I'm so willing to try this why are other people so nervous about it?
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