What Makes a Man Sexy?
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Posted:Jul 22, 2006 7:56 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2006 10:20 am
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What makes a man appealling? Is it his dashing good looks? Is it his rock-hard pecs and abs of steel? Or is it his smile and his personality that takes the top marks?Sexiness is a very subjective matter and is very relative at that. Every individual has different views about a lot of things even as fars as taste in clothes and food.
So what makes a man sexy? Ladies (and men who think men are sexy!) is it any of the following?
1. Masculinity
There is more to a man than his firm butt and washboard abs. True, what a woman first notices is his assets but what lingers in her mind is not all that. It's his masculinity. It's in the way he languidly struts across the room with a show of adequacy and grace and the way he flashes the glint in his eyes that ultimately creates the spark. It's also in the manner that he moves and talks that keeps women's eyes riveted at him. Being masculine does not merely suggest flaunting a large build or a protective quality but having this natural instinctive masculine self to trigger women's instinctive feelings of attraction.
2. Smile
A natural sweet smile is one of the greatest attraction of a man. It also breaks a woman's resistance and communicates hidden messages without any verbal language. This is why a man who is generous with his smile is guaranteed to maintain a women-magnet profile! 
3. Eye contact
A man who knows how to have eye contact is a man who knows how to communicate. Women just like men are absolute attention seekers. They want men to listen and to take heed of the things they say.It makes a woman feel sufficiently attended to and cared for. Eye contact makes women feel so extremely special that they tend to sometimes melt right on the spot.
4. Confidence
Confidence makes a man. There's just something about the appeal of wealth and power that women can't resist. Opposite to how most people view it, giving off that commanding vibe isn't always dependent on one's bank account. Men can actually take on that aura of authority just by moving through life with an air of self-assurance and a boost of self-esteem.
5. Aromatic sense
If a man is a making of a heartthrob onscreen and is a hunk on a ramp but stinks, he definitely goes down the cutthroat world. No woman likes a man who smells a bit too ripe like he just spent 24 hours locked in the bathroom. If a man looks good and smells even better, women are bound to swarm around him.
6. Sense of Style
Some men just don't seem the type to go with the fashion trend. But it does not mean that they are passe. Some just have their own personal preferences and resist the lure of punked-up garments. Actually, it's not the clothes that make a man sexy. It's how he carries his apparel with confidence and ease that does. Clothes don't entice women, it's the man that makes those clothes look good in him that wiles them. 
7. Communication skills
Conversational skills are necessary for any man to win the tilt. He must know when and how to start up a conversation and carry it on 'til it tapers off. He should not patronize women and is not so full of himself. It is believed that if a man is able to stimulate a woman's brain juices in a conversation, it is likely that he can stimulate her other juices as well. 
8. Sensitivity
Sensitivity is sexy but too much sensitivity is feminity. So where do we draw the line? When we talk about sensitivity on the right scale, it means having a sense of empathy, confidentiality and trust rolled into one. When a woman confides something, a man's initial reaction is to help her find a solution or fix it himself. This is not sensitivity. When a woman expresses her feelings, she just needs an ear to insorb the steam out of her being. A sexy man sees this through and gets women everytime.
9. Sense of Humor
Laughter releases chemicals that create a sense of well-being, which is a wonderful turn-on. A man equipped with a good sense of humor automatically wins his points on the sexy scale with women. With the mighty use of his expression and wits combined, he becomes an addiction that women just can't get enough of. Women think that if he can evoke them with laughter in public, chances are he can also make them giggle in bed.
10. Oddity
If a man has the gift of music or have potential fancy footwork or simply has art at his fingertips, he can charm his way anywhere. A mysterious facade that keeps her intrigued and guessing is also deemed bewitching. But a man's resistance to a woman's seduction is considered the prime. It's effects are naturally ingrained into the "sex" part of a woman's brain that it drives her motors purring all the time. 
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Body Language
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Posted:Jul 19, 2006 2:42 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2006 12:40 pm
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Does anyone believe or even look for a certain body language when they're on a date? Here are some of the usual ones which ones do you look out for? 
Here are some dating body language that you should learn to read the next time you went out on a date.
Going to your direction
Just as a person who is interested will directly go to a person, their dating body language will also point in the direction of the person they are interested in. People will lean towards you or point in your direction, whether it be with the foot, the leg or the whole body. People who are really into you will also exhibit a body language that is relaxed exhibiting trust and at the same time with tension.
Looking at the face
When dating for the first time, people whose interests were aroused will exhibit a common set of body language. Their eyebrows will rise, their eyes will dilate and their lips will part after smiling. One of the classic dating body language is the hair toss, where she will touch her hair and then look at you. With women, they will usually smile a lot and even giggle a couple of times at things that you say. Another dating body language that you should watch out for is the willingness to expose her wrists, palms and the inside of their arms.
Looking straight in the eye
Though not all people have the courage to exhibit this particular dating body language, it is nevertheless effective. People who look at you straight in the eye during conversations are found to be more attractive and more approachable. They are also considered to be more honest. People who make the effort to look at you in the eye are genuinely interested in you and in what you are saying. Otherwise they wouldn’t waste much time. One should remember though that this is not true for all kinds of people. Some people actually become shyer when talking to a person they really like. Their dating body language become more closeted and nervous. They would refuse to look directly at the eye and may bow down their heads all the time. Know the difference.
Sitting with arms crossed
This dating body language spells “don’t come closer” in big bold silent letters. A very protective stance, crossing the arms shows a need for people to back away because there is a problem with trust. This is one body language that tells you that you just made the worst impression on someone. Some people who are not into relationships unconsciously adopt this dating body language to show that they are not interested. 
Batting their eyelash
This dating body language and flirting style may seem a bit archaic to you, having been there during the time of Scarlett O’ Hara but it sure is effective with the men. Only the women, however, can get away with this particular brand of dating body language. Men who try to bat their eyelash would probably appear as if they have a tic in their eyes and might need a psychiatrist. 
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Friends with Benefits - Can it work?
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Posted:Jul 17, 2006 3:55 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2006 10:21 am
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Is there ever such a thing as "No Strings Attached?" Can a friendship between two people withstand casual sex? Or is that just an idealistic concept? One night stands aren't as in as they used to be. Now lovers are coupling up for more long term sex. It's called "Friends with Benefits". They get all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment. They start out as friends. They enjoy each other's company and then one night start sleeping together.
They don't date. It's not a traditional "significant other" type relationship. In many cases, the other friends don't even know about their sex on the side. It's set up as a mutual gratification, friends helping friend’s arrangement.
What most Friends with Benefits fail to do is set up the rules. It generally starts out as either happenstance or perhaps a small dialog exchange, "I don't have anyone, you don't either, so let's do it, no strings attached. What do you think?" It all sounds well in good; at least initially when both are hornier than a unicorn. But can friends who sleep together remain friends once it ends? Or is the start of mutual sex the start of the end of their friendship?
Sex creates a bond, no matter how discussed up front it is. Someone always gets hurt in the end of a no strings attached, Friends with Benefits arrangement. Booty Calls always start out with mutual orgasms as the sole purpose. Yet when two people share that kind of closeness, and if it's a recurring buddy booty call, then they spend time together. Someone is doing something very intimate with and to the other. Who isn't always appreciative of a good orgasm?
One or both may know that they don't want a commitment and that's why the No Strings Attached agreement was conceived. But when the "ooh baby, yeah that feels so good, I love what you do to me" occurs regularly, how can they NOT start to feel something for the other? One person will inevitably feel a stronger emotional bond than the other; it's not male/female bias. One will still only love the physical benefits and the other will enjoy the great sex so much that they get attached, even though they weren't looking for any relationship.
Or perhaps one person may have always been secretly attracted to the friend and knew the other didn't want a relationship, yet figured a Friend with Benefits arrangement was better than nothing. Hence they verbally agreed to the arrangement but emotionally they were already hooked.
Develop some rules before entering into any such arrangement. Consider these suggestions: No going out with each other unless it's in a group situation or you know the night will end in sex, therefore the outing is part of foreplay, no public affection, no gifts and any other boundaries you want to instill. Before it starts, decide how it will end. If starting out as friends, the goal is to end as friends. If new love interests were previously discussed among friends, shouldn't those types of conversations still be allowed?
Anyone have this type of relationship?
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Awards
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Posted:Jul 16, 2006 10:58 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2006 10:43 am
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I had to attend my football end of season awards last night and as well as getting a skinful of free drink I won 2 awards Player of the year and players player of the year...just thought I'd share my happiness hehe. See the 2 trophies in the wee picture
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Talking Dirty
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Posted:Jul 15, 2006 6:33 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2006 12:47 pm
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One of the best ways to create an erotic scene is with a little naughty talk into your partner or new partner’s ear. And as you know from getting ready to come this evening, presentation is everything.
Finding Your Sexy Voice
Everyone knows what a sexy voice is, but do you know how to find yours? Talking deeply isn’t enough, nor do you need to smoke a pack of cigarettes a day either. This part is all about your attitude and your ability to relax in the moment. Start with your breathing. Think about how you are breathing at the moment. Is it quick or is it slow? Your voice should move with this rhythm. With quick breaths, you want to break up your sentences, and with longer breaths, you can give more details. Talk like you were trying to whisper, but ran out of breath. Your voice may drop a notch by doing this. Or you can just relax and talk a little more quietly to get the same effect.
What Am I Going To Say?
If you’ve never talked dirty, then this is going to be an eye-opening experience. And you’re going to feel a bit strange at first, but that’s normal. Think about the things that you love about the other person. Is it a particular body part? That’s great, you can use that.
You can start with something like, “I love your (whatever body part you choose)” at first. This gets you warmed up and everyone likes a compliment. This will also show the other person that you’re going to talk a bit. You aren’t answering a question, so try no to use the word ‘because.’ You don’t have to give a reason, you just love something. But you can say what that particular body part is doing to your body. Slow it down and lengthen the talk out. Start with “I love your (whatever body part).” Take a pause and then finish with, “It makes my (choose your favourite sexual organ) hot/wet/choose your reaction.”
Tell them how they make you feel in explicit detail and watch their reaction. You’re well on your way to being a pro at dirty talk. As a side note, some folks like to use words that may be derogatory, but I would make sure that the other person doesn’t mind before you try them. Some will be very offended and that isn’t a good way to start a lovely evening.
Getting Comfortable
Why many people don’t use dirty talk is because they think they sound silly and that’s just not the case. As with anything new, you just need to jump in and try it. Everyone has a first time for everything, and since you’re in a safe environment, no one is going to laugh at you.
Saying anything that is related to sex in the heat of an already arousing moment will sound magical. You just need to spit it out a few times to get comfortable with saying it. After a while, dirty talk will come naturally and your partner of the moment will love it
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Massage - How and Where to Touch Guide
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Posted:Jul 14, 2006 2:31 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2006 7:31 am
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Always use some kind of oil. Dry hands on skin don't feel good, especially if she has any pain in her back. Use a light oil and don't use too much. There are some good aromatherapy oils on the market, choose a musky or citrus scent, as these are the two most likely to coincide with natural human pheromones, most people either have a natural musk or citrus scent that can only be picked up subconsciously, and trigger an animal like response. Flower scents don't work so well.
Start at her head and work your way down. The earlobes are especially sensitive and should be massaged gently. However, they are also full of nerve endings, which make them feel erotic to the touch. Gently tug.
Moving down to the neck, use your palms to cover the entire back of her neck and again, gently squeeze and rub, make sure she knows to tell you if you are being too rough, often women won't say anything for fear of ruining the mood, even if they aren't having a good time. Use both hands to move in circles around the shoulder blade area, and one hand palm down flat on her back to massage the middle. The lower back usually has the tightest muscles, and can be the most painful, so if you're not a professional masseuse, be extremely gentle in this area.
She should be feeling pretty good by now, use a little more oil and work your way down massaging the buttocks and the thighs. It can get a little steamy here, let the evening end up as it should.
If you get to her feet, spend some time on them, women pay big bucks for pedicures, and when she realizes how good it feels to have you do them, her girl at the parlour may just be out of business. The back of the knees are a well kept secret for erotica and massage, little kisses are just as good here as your fingertips.
Low lights or candles lend to the romance for the evening; you can also add natural music, and the sounds of waves, rainforest, or the crash of a thunderstorm make for an especially romantic night. Massage and all the things that come with it will be sure to surprise and delight your lover, so take a little extra time to learn how to touch the right way which will give her the most relaxation and pleasure.
Anything else ladies?
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Female Erogenous Zones
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Posted:Jul 12, 2006 5:02 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2006 12:48 pm
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So ladies let me know if any here are missed! Which is everyones favorite and which (if any) don't you like. (Guessing it might be feet if any)
What are the erogenous zones that drive women wild with passion? Most obvious ones of course are her breasts and her clitoris, however there are many more. Below you will find the other top 9 female erogenous zones (some obvious and some not so obvious!) that with careful attention from you, can drive your partner wild with desire.
Go slowly
Keep in mind that women tend to like a lot of foreplay before full sex and concentrating on the erogenous zones below, will help warm your partner up, increase her desire and lead to more a satisfying sexual relationship. Here are the 9 top female erogenous zones with some tips on how to approach for maximum impact:
Top 9 female erogenous zones
Outside of the two most common ones here are the other 9 zones to target.
1. Ears
There are a huge amount of nerve endings in and around the ears, making them extremely sensitive to being kissed, licked and nibbled. Explore this area gently kissing, licking and nibbling both around the outside of the ear and also forget to do the occassional lick inside.
2. The Lips
3. Neck
The neck is one of the best erogenous zones for most women and if you have been kissing her lips try moving down to her neck next. Most women simply love having their neck kissed, licked and sucked and this makes most women feel incredibly aroused. Explore the different areas of her neck, you will find the area close to the ears is particularly sensitive, so pay particular attention to this hot spot. With this erogenous zone (in fact with all really!) variety and passion are the key, vary the intensity of your kissing, nibbling and licking and you will hear from her reaction how much she enjoys it. A word of caution! Be careful not to get too carried away, most women will not appreciate a bruised neck.
4. The Back
The back is one of the most under rated female erogenous zones and the small of the back in particular, is rich in nerve endings and incredibly sensitive. Start by massaging the back for a great way to set the mood for a night of passion. Not only does massaging the back realize tension and help de-stress, it also increases the blood flow to pelvic region and increases its sensitivity. While massaging her back don’t forget to kiss and lick it, you will find that most women love this and particularly love having their spine kissed and licked running your tongue up and down this area is very erotic.
5. Legs
The inner thighs and the backs of the knees have a huge amount of nerve endings and are extremely sensitive. Lightly kissing and licking in this area can be highly erotic be careful (particularly behind the knees) not to be to rough these areas are very sensitive!
6. Buttocks
Most women are self conscious about their bottoms and deep down want them appreciated. Squeezing and fondling this area and kissing and licking it will be appreciated by most women, who simply love knowing their butt is liked and appreciated.
7. Feet
They're a lot more sensitive than most people think. In Fact, a large area in the brain receives sensations and signals from them, so paying attention to them can be highly stimulating for most women. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them as well as massaging them with your hands are guaranteed to arouse your partner. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be exciting and pleasant for many women.
8. Hands and arms
Not An erogenous zone that most men think of, but fact is most women love having their wrists kissed and nibbled by their men. Many women also like having their hands kissed (a traditional sign of affection) and their fingers sucked. Other areas to target include the joint areas of the arm.
Finally … So there you have it 9 other female erogenous zones to target which your partner will appreciate. When targeting these areas remember to do so with eagerness, passion and variety.
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Cheesy Questionnaire
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Posted:Jul 8, 2006 11:36 am
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2006 7:38 am
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Wonder how many people answre these and pass them on
Here goes...
1. Your First Name:
2. Is it really your first name?
3. Age:
4. Single, In Heavy Like, In Love, Enjoying FWB, Married, Happily Married, or Married But Looking For Something New:
5. Favourite Movie:
6. Favourite Song:
7. Kinky or Clean:
HERE COMES THE FUN ... ... ...
1. What is your philosophy of life?
2. Would you keep a secret from me if you thought it was in my best interest?
3. What is your favourite memory of me?
4. Did we know each other in a past life?
5. In your next life will you want to remember knowing me in this one?
6. Do you want to get drunk together?
7. Tell me one odd/interesting fact about you:
8. Can we get together and bake cookies?
9. Have you heard any stories or rumours about me? Do share.
10. Do you want see me naked?
11. Would you take a long drive with me?
12. Do you think I'm attractive?
13. Have I seen you naked?
14. Would you like me to see you naked? If so, how could we arrange that? Please include Mapquest links.
15. If you could change anything about me, would you? What would it be?
16. What about me do you think I should never, ever change?
17. What do you wear to sleep?
18. Would you come over for no reason just to hang out?
19. Would you go on a date with me if I asked you?
20. Do you ever make the first move?
21. Ask me something you've always wanted to know about me. (I promise to answer anything.)
22. Tell me something I should know about you.
23. Will you post this on your blog so I can fill it out for you?
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Male Sex Toys
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Posted:Jul 3, 2006 4:20 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2006 7:56 am
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Saw this wee article on some of the male sex toys out there. Has any of the guys ever used a sex toy or has any of the ladies ever saw her fella using one or use them in their sex life?
I must admit I've never tried any and have no real urge to use any cause I can't imagine them being any good. I would love to though because I think the girls are spoilt with vibrators...especially that Rampant Rabbit, man I've seen some of my girlfriends give themselves some mind blowing orgams using that thing. I'm jealous!
There is a wide range of toys that fall into every category out there. They range anywhere from erection rings (cock rings), penis extenders, masturbators, and even penis pumps. Millions of dollars are being spent each year on toys for men, and the trend is climbing. Male toys have gained in popularity over the last decade, and more and more men are coming to use sexual aids, for both themselves and with their partners.
Erection Rings - Commonly known as the cock ring, these are very popular in men to help control climaxing, and prolong their erections. Made of silicon or latex, these aids come in a variety of textures, size`s, and design. They also have sleeves which slip over the penis, and are usually ribbed or studded.
Penis Extenders - Also known as Prosthetic Penis Attachment, these aids can be attached with a strap or slip on like a condom. Primarily used to add girth and length, this helps for deeper penetration while helping to stimulate an erection. They are also a great item to help in relationships where there are few options for medical conditions such as premature ejaculation, and erectile dysfunction.
Masturbation Pumps - Not to be confused with penis pumps. These are used to simulate intercourse, and are specifically designed for pleasuring ones self. The difference between masturbation pumps and penis pumps is masturbation pumps simulate intercourse by increasing and decreasing the amount of vacuum suction in the tube therefore simulating the motion of sex.
Penis Pumps - Now penis pumps, on the other hand, are strictly used to help fatten and elongate the penis. By vacuuming all the air of the tube, the penis is allowed to expand in the free space causing free blood flow into the shaft. Of course some swear by penis pumps, and other`s say if anything, would help fatten the penis instead of lengthen. Extreme caution should be used when attempting to use a penis pump, as serious injuries can be sustained if used improperly.
Dolls - For those lonely adventurous types, try a virtual doll. Most of the new ones are made of synthetic foam, and not some blown up contraption. These dolls feel very life like, and doesn’t take NO for an answer. They will never turn you down, and are willing to take it in any position or any way. Most accept it from anywhere, and the more costly one are even remote controlled.
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Uniforms?
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Posted:Jun 16, 2006 10:50 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2006 11:33 am
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Uniforms can be pretty damn arousing, there are the obvious ones such as schoolgirl, maid and nurse for the men and Fireman and Policeman ones for the women but what other outfits do you find sexaully appealing?
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Your relationship after a threesome..
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Posted:Jun 13, 2006 2:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2006 11:34 am
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For those of you who have had a threesome sexual experience, what if any were your thoughts after the act. I'm curious to know how it affected your relationship for good or bad. Did you see each other the same? Did you see your partner experience sexual pleasure in a different way than when you are sexually involved??
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Top 11 mistakes men make in bed.
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Posted:Jun 7, 2006 3:31 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2006 11:35 am
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Was bored and browsing through the internet and came across this wee article....any views?
When it comes to making your girl happy in bed, sometimes there's more you need to know than the quickest way to get her pants off. These are a few common ways guys fuck up when they're screwing around.
1. First, a lot of guys are afraid that just because she can be sweet and gentle that a girl needs to be treated like a delicate flower. When you're getting dirty, you don't want to hurt her, but you don't have to act like a pussy. Before you get down to the main event, take the opportunity to get a feel for every part of her - start out slow at first, but don't hold back. She'll let you know if it's too much. She might like just a gentle nibbling on her earlobes or nipples, a light massage of her shoulders or thighs. But she also might want you to bite or squeeze harder. Take your time with the breasts: try squeezing, massaging, tickling or sucking them. Give them the attention they deserve. She's a girl, not a museum piece. Don't be afraid to throw your weight on her. Though some might not like it really rough, a girl can get just as turned off if she thinks you've got too light a touch.
2. Sometimes when you're trying to please your girl it's easy to get caught up in all the details and forget why you're there - to have fun. If you spend too much time worrying whether she's having a good time, you can bet she's probably not. Confidence is sexy, and don't forget that you want to have a good time too. So let loose, and lighten up.
3. Of course, this doesn't mean that you don't pay any attention to her. Pay attention to what she wants. She wants to get off too, and two minutes of thrusting isn't going to cut it. If you're having trouble coming too early, trying taking it slow at first and work your way up to a faster rhythm. The longer you've got to play the more fun it is for both of you. It also doesn't hurt to practice by yourself. Most guys rub one out as quick as they can, but if you want to be ready for the big game, try holding out as long as possible, even if you have to stop every couple of minutes to cool down. If it's still a problem, you can talk to your doctor and see what he recommends. No matter what you do, no girl wants to be left lying in the wet spot still hot and bothered listening to you snoring. If you haven't managed to finish her off in intercourse, give her a hand - or at least a finger - and she'll thank you for it.
4. Though some girls like to talk dirty, too much talk can definitely ruin the mood. If she wanted to talk, she would have just called you, not jumped into bed. Take her lead. If she starts whispering in your ear, or tells you to, then it can't hurt, but otherwise let your body do the talking. And absolutely, under no circumstances, ask if she came. If you don't know, she hasn't.
5. Guys, your girl wants a man of action, not some lazy slob who just lays there. You should know that sex requires a little more activity than watching TV. Does she have to do everything for you? Take the lead. Ladies love a man of action and there's nothing sexier than being made to feel sexy. So show her how much you desire her - both in and out of the bedroom.
6. If you like getting head - and there isn't a man alive who doesn't - remember that she probably likes it too. Just a hunch. She may be afraid to ask, but that doesn't mean she doesn't like it. Like everything else in bed, you've got to give oral sex if you want to get it, and she'll be more willing to gobble your nob if you eat her out before or after.
7. When you get a girl in bed the first time it may seem like it'll kill the mood to rifle through your drawer for that condom you've stashed away. But no matter how nice she looks, you never know where she's been - or who with. And even she might not know that she has an STD. Even if she says she's clean and on the pill, the only way that you can know for sure that you're safe is if you wrap your tool the first time and every time.
8. You've surely heard the phrase "timing is everything" when people talk about relationships - it's true about sex as well. You need to learn what the right amount of foreplay is for you and your partner. If you don't do enough to get her engine revved up, she's not going to be very responsive when you move on to the sex. But if you take too long with your foreplay action, that can be just as wrong a move to make - you want to get her (and yourself) to the right level of excitement without blowing your wad or hers too soon.
9. Remember that sex is supposed to be about having fun and making a connection with the other person. Don't be so serious about doing it "right" or doing everything "perfectly" every single time. Learn to laugh at yourselves and to enjoy your bodies and your sexual experiences. It will make for a much more satisfying sex life in the long run.
10. If you find that during all your fun loving that you have some kind of a problem, be willing to talk about it - but not during the act itself. If you know that you come after 2 minutes and she tells you it's ok, here's a hint - she's lying. Be willing to take the necessary steps to work together as a couple to find a solution - whether it be new techniques, new positions or even medical assistance.
11. Last, remember that you are an equal partner in the sexual relationship. So don't make the mistake of thanking her profusely for the opportunity to fuck her. Be sure that you treat her with respect, but know that you have the right to have your needs fulfilled as well.
And besides, if you follow these other tips, she'll likely be the one thanking you.
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