How to be successful as single male in the lifestyle
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Posted:Nov 2, 2018 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 4:45 am
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I have been a swinger for 20 . I typically since the beginning of swinging with hubby have always been one of the few females whom seek out single males . So many males in this lifestyle really seem to have no clue or guidance .
This is not a bashing post but maybe just maybe some will read it and get much farther than some whom have contacted me lol. You are here as a single male among 1000's of others trying for the same thing . So your game needs to be spot on to stand out from the other 1000's doing the same . Have a profile well written and informative .Women want to know before messaging back that there may be any interest and not waste your time or theirs . Have wayyy more than one picture. One picture on a profile screams fake to veteran women . It also screams I am too lazy to really try . One cock picture screams I am phishing . Always has . Could have been gotten in a picture phishing scam . Those whom have no pictures here 95% of the women most likely won't even bother . Why message and message to get to the pictures to find out there is no attraction . Have said pictures actually upright and good quality . Dark blurry pics and or side way pics are horrible. Look your best in those pics. Guys holding fish are ridiculous unless you are strictly looking for a fishing partner ! Otherwise is not a good look. Same goes for the guys wearing a dirty sweaty ball cap and lets not forget the wonderful guy holding up the beer SMH..Nothing screams more than Im a drunk and probably will never get it up if we meet than the stupid beer can picture !
When you send that first message to a female actually say "hello" things like how are you doing? etc are also the way to go. If you think your first contact should be " hey I wanna fuck that pussy, or wanna suck my cock, or just the word"hey" or any things like the 3 mentioned you are not gonna get very far ! If you get far you best ask to see them on cam as you most likely are talking to another guy pretending to be a female lol .
Women here also have jobs and lives. If you think they are singed on because they right now on the spot are looking for immediate asap hook ups you are gonna be highly disappointed .Most need to make a connection with a man . Not that it doesn't exist and that I have done so , but the fact that you just happened to click on the one in a million that may be here for that ...yeah your chances are not that good or you have won the lottery by now lol.
Read a person's profile before contacting them ...I know many are free members and cannot do that...well let me say if you cannot afford the monthly fee here which is the price of one meal you would spend a month you may want to re-evaluate your finances . 50% of the women especially single women want the male to host or if not in area host in a hotel . If you cannot afford the monthly fee here you certainly are not paying for a hotel room .
These are just a few things I could probably go on but won't . I constantly hear men bitch and complain about swinger sites and most do not realize they themselves are the solely reason they are not getting anywhere. If you tell them why they are not succeeding they start the name calling and dis respectfulness almost on cue . It tells a woman exactly what they were thinking from the word go.
You are essentially here interviewing for a job that 1000 other men want . Not that some do not want multiple employees lol...lets face it men would love to have a harem of women to have fun with. Why is it wrong for women to have the same . So stand out for the interview from the rest. Or don't and continue to feel like the lifestyle sucks and this site sucks etc etc . Meanwhile those whom have learned are off having the times of their lives ! .
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