[B]Hello all that read this page! We are glad that you did. We are a couple that isn't new to this game, just not finding couples that are honest about who/or what they are, so I have come up with this philosophy! [B] Being with other couples should be looked at as a fun thing to do, not something to be so anxious about that you will toss your cookies thinking about your impending meeting. The most important thing to remember when you are doing this is honesty. Be completely honest about you, your partner, what you do, what you do for fun and more. Because if this is the couple that ends up being your match and then they find out that you were dishonest about nearly everything, this couple will never trust you again. Also make sure that you are open and honest about your "swinging" practices. Let them know right away that they may not always be the only ones. Because if you try to hide your other couples from them intentionally and they find out after maybe deciding that you are the"couple for them, they will be pissed off. This again leads to mistrust and you can not build a sexual relationship upon ground which is already shaky at best. After a few meetings you can mutually then decide if you want to step it up and they will already know that you are seeing other people so no surprises will be in store for them. [/B] [B][SIZE 3]All in all we had good luck, but results are never guaranteed anyway so this in no way makes us not want to find that couple that we can connect with. [/SIZE][/B] There is also something that we as a couple believe that this is something that both couples WANT!I don't believe that this should be something couple should be doing to save there marriage! If you have problems see a counselor, not another couple, it just adds to the problems that are already there. There is an old proverb that cautions everyone to "be careful what you ask for, you may receive it." No idea can be more appropriate when it comes to the concept of "swinging." Those who are interested in participating in swinging activities but know little about the movement, or what actually might be involved, are often caught unaware of the many ramifications such participation might have on their relationships ... if any couple is considering involvement in such a lifestyle, they must do so with the full knowledge and agreement between both partners[/B]

My Ideal Person We are a straight male and bi-sexual female couple. We are looking for either a couple or bi-sexual female. We are looking for dicreet encounters, because of the nature of his work.

We are looking for friends first and friends with benefits later. We are loking for friends to enjoy dinners with, perhaps wine tasting, or drinks at our local hangout.

We would be interested in looking for a couple or female to which to base a relationship with that lasts for more than a single night.

Also, foreplay is also a big turn on before actual sex. And yes foreplay can involve many things. Ask us to find out!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
to many to list

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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