The Countdown Begins.....
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Posted:Sep 6, 2013 6:43 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 5:40 am
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Not exactly the countdown I was hoping for. My membership runs out Sept 11, next Wednesday. and with All I have to do I am not sure I'll be able to get around to renewing it. As a married man I feel like I'm at the very bottom of the pile. Seems the women I'm most interested in require a passport to see in person. All the domestic goddesses I have adored all require a plane ticket. All in All I have "E-met" some fabulous people. And have really enjoyed some of the blogs.
Of late I have change my objectives here, less to find some one to play with and more towards looking to pull out all the stops to crank up the heat with wonder woman. Trying to change her won't work so I am trying to change me so I get the "sought after resultant change in behavior on her part" after all I only really have 100% control over me anyways. I don't know how soon but I'll be back. Wiser I hope and a bit more Buff too!
Wish you all the best of luck
I hope you find what you're are looking for.
And when you do find them...
I hope it gives you the peace you're looking for.
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Surprise!
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Posted:Sep 4, 2013 7:18 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2014 7:53 pm
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I am planning a sneak attack. More like sabotage or subversion. If you read the previous post " What would you do? (Ladies)", my gift package was met with a quick, childish smirk and then place unceremoniously next to the night stand - where it languishes to this day, forgotten & untouched, some 3 weeks later.So now I am planning my next move.
Today, while she's away I am replacing all of her "night" clothes. For at least the past two years she has always worn a slightly large t shirt of some color(usually with some design on them) and a pair of slightly large cotton gym shorts.
So today I am replacing all of those items with white men's business shirts and black thong panties.
Lets see how this goes. Stay tuned
FOLLOW UP/ RESULTS
As luck would have it she was sick that night. No, she wasn't faking, I was with her while she was worshiping the porcelain throne. The next morning she simply posed a question... "Who's been playing with my night clothes?" No teasing, tickling or other indications of Naughty Fun. She has worn the same silk night shirt for the past 2 nights.
In her defense I will say I probably should have done this on a Friday or Saturday night, Not a weekday night-so maybe there is still hope?
Date: June 2014 She took the hint and has worn the Business dress shirts from then forward to current time. She still hasn't picked up the other end of the baton (pun intented).
My Quest Continues...
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Surprise!
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Posted:Sep 4, 2013 7:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 5:40 am
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I am planning a sneak attack. More like sabotage or subversion. If you read the previous post " What would you do? (Ladies)", my gift package was met with a quick, childish smirk and then place unceremoniously next to the night stand - where it languishes to this day, forgotten & untouched, some 3 weeks later.So now I am planning my next move.
Today, while she's away I am replacing all of her "night" clothes. For at least the past two years she has always worn a slightly large t shirt of some color(usually with some design on them) and a pair of slightly large cotton gym shorts.
So today I am replacing all of those items with white men's business shirts and black thong panties.
Lets see how this goes. Stay tuned
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Surprise!
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Posted:Sep 4, 2013 7:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 5:40 am
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I am planning a sneak attack. More like sabotage or subversion. If you read the previous post " What would you do? (Ladies)", my gift package was met with a quick, childish smirk and then place unceremoniously next to the night stand - where it languishes to this day, forgotten & untouched, some 3 weeks later.So now I am planning my next move.
Today, while she's away I am replacing all of her "night" clothes. For at least the past two years she has always worn a slightly large t shirt of some color(usually with some design on them) and a pair of slightly large cotton gym shorts.
So today I am replacing all of those items with white men's business shirts and black thong panties.
Lets see how this goes. Stay tuned
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What would you do? ( Ladies)
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Posted:Aug 30, 2013 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2013 3:19 pm
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Ladies what would you do? You come home from work shortly after you arrive at the house you head into the bedroom to change out of the day’s clothes and into something more casual. As you enter the room the first thing you notice is the light fragrance of vanilla and cinnamon. Breaking the silence is a slow, mellow ethereal sound which fills little more than just the room. On your side of the bed there is a gift bag. Peeking inside you find your favorite chocolates, your favorite perfume, a men’s white business shirt wrapped in a pearl necklace, a black thong panties, matching black pumps and a tube of red lipstick. There is a rolled up sheet of paper with a red rose stuck inside.
I am interested in your response to the above scenario? What’s your next move?
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Why I am here.
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Posted:Aug 21, 2013 10:52 am
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2013 6:44 am
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I wanted to explain why I am here, however to certain people it will sound like an excuse and probably sound like every other guy on the planet. However it might give others color in their monochromatic world. And I will probably catch a LOT of crap for this.
Some of it might sound trite or cliché’ but it is true. I do love my wife dearly, as a woman, a wife and a mother. I find her incredibly desirable, both on a physical and intellectual level. So why am I here? Am I just a sex hound liking for more? Am I a “typical” man who would fuck almost anything that fogs a mirror- and sometime that’s not ever a requirement; Just looking to blow a load and go. Notch up the bed post so to speak. ABSOLUTELY NOT!
The first 15 plus years of our marriage was great- as it usually is in the beginning. But I realized at one put I was putting all the effort into intimacy. We both worked, we both cleaned house and shared all the other chores of a typical household with 2 . She would decide where we went on vacation, what TV and other services to get and things like that. I figured happy wife, happy life. But when it comes to being intimate, physical or sexual- I did it all, I initiated each encounter. Planned the getaways and at home it was the same, I set the mood picked the music arranged for dinner and everything else. In fact if I didn’t plan it- we didn’t "do it".
I am not brightest knife in the drawer. It took over 15 years for me to drop the ball and see where she took it. About seven years ago … I stopped initiating… and the ball stopped bouncing. It’s still in the same spot. She thinks everything is fine. She always has. She was always the “willing victim” of my passion N Desire for her, yet she has never expressed any for me.
I would ask “what do you want to do?” and the answer is always the same- she wants to be licked, and in my book, ladies always cum first; and she always does. I know she’s not faking it because she can’t act and the secretions after orgasm change the taste … and that can’t be faked. I always ask if there’s anything that would make it “better” “more enjoyable” and all I ever here is “it’s fine, lovely, wonderful”; However she never even makes even the slightest gesture to reciprocate. She hasn’t touched me in a passionate or desirous manner in 20 yrs. If she responds to playful sexual banter it’s always done in a situation that will never lead to being physical. She’s all set and ready to go to work and I’ll make a risqué comment and she’ll respond, but then nothing can happen because of the timing. She’ll joke about hot steamy sex, but that’s at 7:30 am, by 5:30 pm it been forgotten. I‘ve spend hundreds of dollar on lingerie that MIGHT be wore once and then… lost.. forever. I have left packages for her on the bed full of sexy clothes, candies and jewelry. I get a schoolgirl giggle out of her and then the package, untouched is put on the side of the bed to gather dust.
This is what is driving me nuts. I think I have tried everything over the last seven years- I know I have tried everything I know of – multiple times to get her to initiate something on a physical level, to no avail.
I am now convinced she either doesn’t like sex OR does like sex with me. I think she doesn’t see herself as sexy and she has always resisted that concept with a very juvenile response. Either way, I lose. She won’t talk about it, she doesn’t want to see a counselor or therapist; I have seen two therapists, but it’s pointless to go alone. I have tried to change her and that’s pointless too. I have gotten to the point where I realize I am not going to be able to enjoy or participate in the physical joy of sex forever. Living in Florida I am reminded of that at every turn.
I once described this as only being able to take half a breath. Go ahead-try that. Only take half the breath you really want to take. Try it for 15 minutes. Try it for an hour. Now, live like that for years! It becomes intolerable! I am not going to say everything else is fine with the marriage. We have the typical worries and concerns of anyone raising these days have. But when it comes to intimacy -She’s a camel and I am the fish.
Part of me wants to solve this issue between us, and the other part is scared to death I’ll lose her for a multitude of reasons. I feel I have “pushed the issue” so far as I can without making her feel obligated, But I feel like I am suffocating. I am a deeply passionate person, a very sensuous person, romantic and playful. All this is wasted in the context of our physical relationship. I feel like its playing tennis against the wall. I hit the ball against the wall so I know EXACTLY what to expect coming back at me. It’s an interaction with only one dimension. Two people but only one is dancing.
A few years back I had an affair with a wonderful woman. It lasted almost 2 yrs. It was romantic and playful; it brought color back into my life. Yes, there were terrifying moments and parts I really hated, like the deception required to execute any affair. But those stolen moments were wonderful, pure bliss. We parted on the best of terms as she decided to get married (obviously to someone else, not that I was looking to change my marriage). I know we both felt we really touched each other souls. One thing I learned was you can’t change other people but you still have to solve your own problems. I am NOT here just for sex. Sex might be what happens-eventually, but I what I am really looking for chemistry. The kind of chemistry I am looking for can only be described as “sparks.” I want the kind of chemistry that’s far more then the some of the parts; the kind of chemistry that puts vibrant color in your life, the kind of chemistry that distorts time and distance. The days and hours spent apart are agonizing and the time together seems to pass in an instant.
When you have that kind of chemistry, then you have real desire and passion.
Anybody else feel the same?
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Are we being infiltrated?
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Posted:Aug 20, 2013 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2013 10:55 am
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Over the past several weeks I have received a number of what I believe to be FAKE profiles, which I assume, since I am already a gold member, is an attempt by the subject person to, at one point request or extort money from me. Either that or corporate pressures are off the wall. I recently received a profile of a 25 yr old girl said to be in Key Largo, about 3 hours away; A beautiful young woman with blonde hair and stunning blue eyes. Most men would probably roll over died to get an offer like this. Unfortunately she is not at all my type. I don’t consider myself picky but I know what works and what doesn’t. The profile CLEARLY indicated she was “looking for the love of my life” – Hubby hunting.
The profile also indicated she had black hair and brown eyes and was much older than she looked; now that’s more like what I am looking for, but NOTHING jived with the picture. Ladies you always complain that we guys never read profiles, well not me I ANALYSE them top to bottom point by point. But it now seems the scammers create profiles and then slap pictures on it without even looking. If you’re going to steal my money, you’re going to have to work harder than that. So tell me how’s the climate in Nigeria these days?
Oh did I mention she Hotlisted me the very day she joined?
Does it do any good to report these?
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Running Sacred!
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Posted:Aug 9, 2013 6:46 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2013 1:42 pm
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I saw a post on here just today. It was posted in a group I belong to, A FWB group. She was an older woman in early sixties I would say, nice picture, not overtly sexual, at least not by Gay Hookup Zone standards. I went to read her profile and she was gone! She lasted about two weeks. She was asking for a FWB, the post had over almost 400 views and about 15 people had posted responses and these responses were mild compared to some of what the women here have to endure. Needless to say she was over whelmed by the passion (and the pricks) of Gay Hookup Zone.
As a women I can’t imagine what its like but I must be nice, to come back after a few days away and grab a cup of coffee, snuggle into your seat and look for the next great adventure; as you lick your index finger and hit delete, delete, delete……Maybe,..delete…delete…..
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So why preferences?
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Posted:Aug 8, 2013 8:24 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2013 7:45 pm
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What is a preference? Sounds like a simple question, one we all know the answer to …until you get here. I see things on profiles like Open Minded- a preference for, and what I call- deal breakers. On my profile I state I have a preference for substantive women with dark skin, hair and eyes. But certainly that doesn’t mean every women fitting that description in a 50 mile radius is on my favorites list. Historically my first woman was a blonde. I had a two year relationship with a wonderful blonde nurse 13 yrs my senior and my last “affair” which lasted two years was with a blonde woman. In all these cases the chemistry overruled the preference. Yet, lately from some of the writings here I’m getting mixed impressions. I think as a man I should NOT bother to reply to a woman’s profile unless I fit her exact preferences (reducing my ridiculously small chances even further). Reason being that so many men are hitting her up daily that she will be able to find exactly what she’s looking for provided she knows what that is and sticks to her guns.
Yet as a guy I hope that women DON’ T apply the same principle to me. See, I am open minded and my tastes can be eclectic. I think personality and chemistry over rule all preferences, as my own history shows. One thing I am more attuned to now is the astrological charts and matches. Although I don’t run my life by them I have found them most helpful in terms of the negative. In fact in terms of the sexual aspect of it I wished I had paid more attention to it earlier. I have found that it is accurate in terms of predicting where sparks will fly and where I am going to need a huge lighter to get things started.
So as a man should I even state preferences my profile? Ladies as a guy should I not bother if I don’t fit 90% or more of your preferences? I am thinking of redoing my profile and just listing the deal breakers and leaving the rest to the Gods of chance?
What do you think?
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The Mexican Stand off ...
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Posted:Aug 7, 2013 12:06 pm
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2013 7:18 am
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Ladies, I am interested in how you think a first meeting should be arranged. Do you have a regular “process or procedure“you go through with a guy you would like to get to know better. What sends up a red flag that says “proceed with caution and what says “STOP, Proceed no further.”
I have set up fictions accounts, my off site profile and phone number do not connect to me, because I too am worried about some psycho bitch getting my family involved. Layers need to be stripped away and I agree that there has to be verifiable data. What is acceptable? How do we protect each other in this Mexican stand off? I usually have the woman arrange the first meeting at a time and place she feels comfortable with. But I sometimes think that makes me look like a wuss in her eyes. I am not always dealing with married women although I do look for someone that requires discretion. I did this a few years back with someone and it was marvelous; however I do realize that it does leave you vulnerable even years later should someone go – off the deep end. In my situation I like to make my partner realize in the beginning that this sort of thing has a limit and that once that limit is hit we both have to just walk away…hopefully with some beautiful memories. Ladies especially the married ones what works for you.
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You’re everything I want but…
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Posted:Aug 2, 2013 7:55 am
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2013 7:18 am
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The gods of subjectivity and chemistry do battle here every day. One of the hardest things to go through is someone’s ideal match check list, only to find out they are a perfect match for WHAT you want, but they are not WHO you want. On the outside they have all you are looking for but some way somehow the chemistry just isn’t there. The only consolation is that the exact opposite can happen as well. Someone who isn’t WHAT you are looking for can smite you with cupids’ arrow and the chemistry is unbelievably perfect. .. And that makes it all worthwhile!
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A Short Story of the Camel and the Fish
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Posted:Jul 23, 2013 8:28 am
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2013 1:28 pm
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Once upon a time there was a great basin fed by a beautiful stream, an oasis in the middle of a burning desert. The lush vegetation spread for many miles around the basin and animals came from far and wide to drink of its sweet water and play under the many tress. There were few fish in the basin; they lived a happy life in the cool clear water.
One day a fish was swimming by the shore when he spotted the most beautiful camel. The fish was awestruck. He had seen many camels before but this was the most beautiful camel of all. She had stunning bright eyes, her lips a lush ruby red and her hair was beautiful and in the breeze it seemed almost to flow like the water the fish swam in. The fish was mesmerized as he watched her drink from the shore. He made sure he was always in the same position each day as the camel come back for water.
The camel found the fish interesting; his silver skin reflected both the sun and the moonlight. His eyes were deep, soulful and inviting. The camel made sure she always went to the same spot when she came to the watering hole. The fish worked hard to make sure the water there was always deep, cool and inviting. Soon the camel and the fish spent all their time together. The fish would splash her with the cooling water of the basin and he would dive to the bottom of the basin to bring her the coolest water which he would spray on her. She would always lap it up with a smile on her face.
The years went flying by until one day the fish realized that the spring which fed the basin was slowing down to a trickle. Day after day the fish could see the water volume was slowing down. He was worried. What would he do? He could not live without it in the desert.
One day he told the camel “Honey, the spring is drying up and there is no more water coming into the basin” The camel said “That’s ok I have plenty, I am fine thank you.” The camel didn’t seem to realize the fish couldn't live without the cool waters. They still met every day and continued to watch over each other.
Then One day the fish said ” Since there is no more water coming into the basin I really can’t spray you with what’s left anymore” the Camel said “That’s fine I have all I need.” They continued to meet and spend time together. Until one day the fish asked”Honey can you find a way to get more water into the basin? Do you know of another stream or supply?” The camel said “I am sure there’s one somewhere but I have all I need thank you.” The fish didn’t know what to make of this.
One day some other fish came by to tell the fish they had found an underground stream but the water was flowing out and soon all the water would drain out of the basin. But these waters were flowing into another basin far, far off in the distance. They were leaving and would not be back; and soon the water would all dry up. The fish didn’t know what to do. If he didn’t go he would not live long. If he left he would never see the camel again. In his heart he felt he couldn’t go and in his head he knew he could stay.
The fish waited for camel to return. Day after day the fish waited, each day the basin grew smaller and smaller. The fish found himself swimming in a smaller and smaller circle. Finally one day the camel returned. The fish was so happy he sprayed her with what water he had. She lapped it up. She tried hard not to miss a single drop. Finally the fish said “Oh I have no more water certainly not enough water. What did you find in your travels. Is there another source? Can you bring me some? How long will it take? The camel bent down close to the fish who at this point was flapping in the mud and gasping, his eyes alight with excitement. “Silly fish…”the camel said “I told you I have all that I need, I am fine.” And with this the fish smiled as best he could and thought of his friends playing in their new basin as he stared into camels beautiful, sparkling eyes. Underneath him he felt the sun drying up the last of his basin.
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Opinionated Ladies Only...
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Posted:Jul 18, 2013 8:36 am
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2013 1:29 pm
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My Voice intro- ladies; I am looking for suggestions for content.
I used to do voiceovers and radio, but I am looking for what you might want to hear in a Voice intro. There is no sense in repeating what’s written in my profile. It’s in essence a broadcast, so I can’t make it specific to one woman,… What should I put in it?
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